I wanted babies sooo bad, and he had his vasectomy reversed for me, and now we have two beautiful baby boys ( one 20months and one 10 months...the last one was a surprise i was on the pill)
He mentioned he wants to try for a girl... I don't know if i can phyically ( i don't think we can afford it) t i am 36 and tired ..need some advice? HELP, I would like too ..."somtimes"???
2006-10-28 15:32:59 · 9 answers · asked by Lovebeingamom 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
As wonderful as little girls are, u al least need to give your body a rest period. After your body has time to heal completely, talk it over, and if u feel that u can go through it again, and both still have the energy to do so go for it. I can tell u know that u are braver than me, mine are 2 yrs apart, and most days I'm ready to pull out my hair. Good luck
2006-10-28 15:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by Playful_Pandora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your hubby had a visectomy reversed just for you to be able to have a baby girl, then you already commited to doing this. Having a visectomy reversed is a very painfull thing, and I think you should give it a shot. as far as the money thing, then I would not know your income, talk to him about all your concernes, and make decisions with him.
2006-10-28 15:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and most important give your body time to heal and if we all waited till we could afford them then we wouldn't have any kids. Most important it's your body and only you know if you can or want to have another child. Don't be pressured into something that you don't want.
2006-10-28 15:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by kathy e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys need to see how you feel about having a girl when your youngest is 2. give your body a rest right now. let him know it takes two years to completely recover from having a child. your insides are still pushed up you cant over do yourself.
2006-10-28 15:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by gyrl6 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might try for a girl but have a boy let him know your fellings about another baby right now
2006-10-28 15:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it out. Let him know where you stand and maybe you two can come up with something
2006-10-28 20:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by Oops! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel.... and take some time to think about it.... you have your hands full as it is....
2006-10-28 15:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel.
2006-10-28 15:36:04 · answer #8 · answered by cnkbrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is fun trying....
2006-10-28 15:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by MMS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋