she has my husband and children at her home for a romantic rendevousz weekend do I let her keep him and lock the doors or take him back and forigive it?
2006-10-28 15:29:23 · 8 answers · asked by nancy sp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there are men who don't lie an cheat! there are good men out there too! if your husband wants to be there , why bother?
2006-10-28 15:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are still good men in the world. I use to feel the same way like men are no good but I met the man of my dreams almost two years ago and were deeply in love. I never felt this way in my life. But understand that a man can only be good if he wants to be. It's all about find one when he's in that place of wanting to settle down. Never give up , but you have to love yourself to find somebody that's willing to love you. This is coming from a woman that has been with more dogs than alpo. As far as a another woman if he's yours he'll be yours and only yours don't tolerate things just because you have kids with this loser. Your wasting time when true love could be at your door. Trust me your kids will be so much happier if your truly happy and a dog only wants a bone. Move on for yourself.......
2006-10-28 15:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by ms.lin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lock the doors. Most men who cheat don't even feel that regretful about it, and if it was a planned romantic rendevous, he has made his choice.
Forgiveness is earned when it is requested, behavior changed, recompense made, and time passes. Forgiveness is given when either the person has repented, or when the injured party no longer feels the wound. So it is not time for that yet.
There are many men who don't lie or cheat, and assuming that you are a constant and loyal woman, you deserve one of them.
2006-10-28 15:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by HeartSpeaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's bad enough if a man cheats, but to drag the kids along to witness the impropriety to unforgiveable in my book. My primary concern would be about the lessons my children are learning from my and my husband's behavior.
2006-10-28 15:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by Who the heck is Bobby? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st there are no men who dont lie or cheat and 2nd call the 24hr locksmith and change the locks girl...im not saying not to take him back later down the line..but let him get his act 2gether...these men dont care how we feel...they dont give a damn about us....and then there's always the women out there that condone their bulls***..she has ur husband and ur CHILDREN at her home??? thats nonsense
2006-10-28 16:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The choice is yours and yours only to make. Personally, I'm one man who doesn't lie on cheat..........but then again, I live alone and have no significant other.
Best wishes in whatever you decide.
2006-10-28 15:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of decent men, you just gotta slow down and make sure you find someone who you know would never lie to you
2006-10-28 15:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by The angel from your nightmare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HECK NO DUMP HIS BUTT IF HES CHEATING ON U
2006-10-28 15:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by lita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋