It doesn’t matter anymore.
I used to sit and wonder to myself,
what it was, I did so wrong.
Could I have treated you different?
or wrote you, a beautiful song.
I loved you with all of my heart,
and I believed, you truly loved me.
You used to say, I was your true love,
and there was no place, you’d rather be.
How could a love so wonderful and pure,
change, from the day we first met.
Was it I, who did you wrong,
or a friend, I will never forget.
But now, it truly doesn’t matter anymore,
why, you hurt and cheated on me.
Because I know, deep in my heart,
It wasn’t I, who cheated on thee.
So I just want you to know,
that if you ever, think of us two.
My life was truly changed, my dear,
and I deserve, a lot better than you.
By: Kenny P aka- Cobra
2006-10-28 14:58:23 · 12 answers · asked by Cobra 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That was a wonderful poem, and sums up a lot what thoughts go through you head when someone cheats on you. I was cheated on by a past boyfriend, and it was awful, but I can say that God brought me through it and I was better because of it. And there was someone much better out there for me. Thank you for sharing that.
2006-10-28 15:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Amber I 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when i was cheated on at first i was full of self blame, and wondered if i had done something differently would i be hurting so, but in reality it was more about him and this woman than anything that went wrong in the marriage. it was more about a man of low moral character, a man who was a coward, who made his choice because she stoked his ego, and made him feel special.my life truly changed for the better, i chose divorce rather than wait out the affair, because i knew in my heart he had chosen her over me, and the only thing that would bring him back was if she rejected him, so i had to ask myself if i wanted to be second, and if i wanted to take back a man who had plotted and planned these dirty things behind my back. so i passed on that and moved on, divorcing him as fast as i could. than i moved far away from him so he could never come back. i not only regained my self respect, i got a better house, a better man, and a nicer life.
2006-10-28 15:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kudos Cobra, Should be a Hallmark Card, Nice to see a man write his feelings down (applause for Kenny P. aka-Cobra)
2006-10-28 15:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by conniechung 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kenny, that is a very nice poem for a broken and healing heart. I think the last line of deserving someone better is in the cards for you.
2006-10-28 15:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ruth R 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is awesome. Great job. Yes. When my X of 20 years did that to me, I felt similar, but a lot more sorrow to the point I could not move. Heal yourself and you will find a non cheater cause if they cheat once, they will do it again again and again.
2006-10-28 15:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by Cy Gold 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like what you wrote. I am sorry that you are going, or have gone, through something so painful. And no it was not your fault, it was the cheater that decided to do it because of free will. NO one decides for us, we all make our own decisions, and if you were doing something wrong, that person had the chance to tell you about or to cheat. They decide to cheat.Not your fault.
2006-10-28 15:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by gil 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have spoken for all of us who have been cheated on by our mates. We all feel like this, and you are right about deserving better.
2006-10-28 15:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish i had the attitude "I deserve a lot better than you" when my husband cheated on me.
2006-10-28 15:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by AVD 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
very moving. i too have moved on, if not by choice, by necessity.
peace love safe and happy mzmrqd
2006-10-28 15:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by borrowedtime 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Awwwwwwwwwww. That was touching.
2006-10-28 15:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by tinamaries43 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋