I'm more afraid of his reaction more than me being pregnant. One of his friends jokingly told him I was pregnant a while ago and he had an astma attack! I just don't know how to tell him.
2006-10-28 14:42:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
However you do it make sure he is sitting down and has his inhaler
2006-10-28 21:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by Oops! 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
First congratulations on your pregnancy!! This is a joyous occassion and you should be happy!! The best thing that you can do is tell him that you are pregnant. Just sit him down and calmly tell him. You also gotta remember that it does take 2 to make a child. If he isn't happy about it, then I say prepare yourself for the worse, example: paternity test, child support, just in case he starts to go off on a limb. But if he is happy, then you have nothing to worry about. But do a little test first to get his reaction. Ask him what would he do if you did tell him you are pregnant. Then take it from there. Whatever you do, I want you to be happy because you are blessed with having this beautiful child and whatever decision you make, good luck!!
2006-10-28 22:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by frakmomma04 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You better tell him, he know what my happened if both of you did not use protection. Forget his reaction what about your parents? If he comes down with an asthma attack give him his pump and let him know that you are scared too. But, you better tell him.
2006-10-28 21:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by JO`NAE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, make sure that you are actually pregnant. Then tell him when it's just the two of you together. Don't do it in some crowded bar.
Just to be on the safe side, make sure he has his asthma meds with him!
2006-10-28 21:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Kraftee 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him at a calm time, when you're going to have a long, private, uninterrupted period of time to chat. Make sure he has his inhaler. Maybe offer him a drink (one or two, no more) if that helps calm him. Make sure you're calm and put together yourself.
This is big news. Congratulations.
2006-10-28 21:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about. Honey I'm pregnant now don't have an asthma attack on me
2006-10-28 21:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by brittney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit with him, and start talking about anything, and then be like when i have a kid, I want to name him or her, whatever u wat 2 name the kid, then ask him what he would want to am his first kif, then ask him if he ee wasnts a kid, then be like well i'm pregnant, and tell, that u guys can get through this, that it will bring another life in to this world.
2006-10-28 22:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to be gentle with him. Get a shot gun and tell him it's for the wedding. (Joking) Seriously you will need to tell him soon and be slow to bring it up. He was involved too so it shouldn't be too great of a shock.
2006-10-28 21:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by my_iq_135 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is the father, you do need to tell him. He better not have an asthma attack. He needs to know that if he is going to have sex, that is how babies are born. He needs to be told. He needs to take care of this kids and he needs to be with you while you have it.
2006-10-28 21:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him, he will find out sooner or later. And make sure you have his ashtma medication on stand by. He is going to have to deal with it, just how you are.
2006-10-28 21:46:23 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I'd just hand him a father's day card. But I'm just blunt like that :)
2006-10-28 21:52:13 · answer #11 · answered by Topanga 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋