Find a time and place where you can talk privately with your parents. the longer you wait the harder it will be to tell them.You can even bring a friend or other adult along to support you. Start by saying you have something really important – and difficult – to tell them. You can also say that it’s taken a lot of courage for you to be honest with them. Then, just tell them.
Be prepared for your parents to freak. This is going to be shock and maybe a disappointment to them. They’ll probably get angry and upset. So brace yourself. Give them some time to get over their initial reaction. After a while, most parents want to support and help their child. Often, they’ll do whatever it takes to make sure you are healthy and safe.
good luck
Manda <3
2006-10-28 14:33:48
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answered by Anonymous
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ok....
first of all, why on earth were you having sex when you're only 13 1/2 yrs. old? and second of all, you're parents are gonna be mad, but you gotta tell them, its better than them finding out from someone else & you gotta get some treatment for you & the kid. and third, whoever is saying that adoption is wrong IS wrong. adoption is the best thing for that child. I'm a Mormon, and I don't know what church you go to or w/e, but LDS family services is a good place to look into. the kid will be raised well by parents that will love it and provide more support than you can give it by yourself. and you might wanna stop your sex life before this happens again. hope this works out well for ya.
2006-10-28 18:01:43
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answered by MormonBandGirlie 2
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Girl u are only 13 years old but I will beat your *** if u was my child my best friend was trying to have a baby. But I help her and she not pregnant. You should never had sex u are still a child but have u ever heard of condoms before. But if your mom founds out that u are pregnant. She can take that baby and put it up for adopation on less your boyfriend is 18 years old. Y ou are not even in High school yet and u are already pregnant. I'm sorry for the language but you need to thank about having that child because u are still one. I 'm 17 years old and I never got myself pregnant.
Good Luck
2006-10-28 15:24:30
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answered by Anonymous
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13 1/2 is very young to be pregnant. Yes your Mom is going to be very angry, but you need to tell her so she can get you to the right kind of doctor so you and the baby stay healthy. Being that young, and still growing, you are going to need extra care so everything goes right. Remember that she loves you and only wants the best for you, even when she is really mad. Tell her tonight and expect to be grounded.
2006-10-28 14:21:38
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answered by kny390 6
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wow you have to tell them and they will definately be extremely disappointed in you..... you are going to make them think they are bad parents and that they didnt raise you right.....
good lcuk?
should have kept ur legs closed, your still a child. its called a freakin condom! liek soemone said if you can afford 10 bucks for a box of condoms how aare you going to afford diapers? you dont even work!!!!!!! now your parents are going to have to reaise YOUR child, YOUR MISTAKE.. thats very unfare. your best bet is to get a abortion or to give the baby uop for adoption but abortion will most liekly be. its very dangerous to have a child aty your age. maybe you will miscarry and wont havet o worry about your health anymore and you will learn form your mistake and reconsider sex...... and use your head next time and use a condom.........
2006-10-28 19:23:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Tell your parents. They will be upset ,but your parents will never stop loving you. I know that you are probably scared and all ,but you need your parents to help you get through this. If you don't want to tell your parents by yourself go to your school counselor and have them help you tell your parents. Trust me when I say their is nothing so bad that your parents are going to stop loving you.
2006-10-28 14:25:04
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answered by Msbaton 2
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Well 13 hunnie? Wow! Im 16 and have kids! But thas ok! Jus as long as if there healthy! But my school teacher told my mama that i was i was tellin my friends and these one girls heard.. and told da teacher..
The teacher mad me take a test and i passed it... She called my mama and told her thas how my mama found out! And now i wished tha i waited!
2006-10-28 14:26:36
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answered by lil_zane702 1
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You can turn it aruond.. just adopt it out. Give it two parents.
Your mom will have a heart attack, however she raised you. So she has the blame too.
Good luck dear.
2006-10-28 14:23:36
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answered by bgh 1
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looks like your not going to be able to hide it for much longer. she's going to be disappointed her 13 YR OLD is having a baby. just tell her and keep striking distance.
good luck.
2006-10-28 18:09:44
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answered by nina 3
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tell your parents. but no matter WHAT you do, DO NOT put your child up for adoption. you have no idea how many people regret it after they do that and how sad it will be for your child. imagine if he/she will go through a ton of foster homes and a ton of pain! you might want to consider an abortion. if you just got pregnant, the child will go through no pain. it's only a seed right now and not really growing or alive yet.
2006-10-28 14:44:36
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answered by Muffin Girl on Dreary Lane 4
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