My ex-boyfriend and I had an intense love...when we were together, we described our love as God. Unfortunately after a few months we had conflict..I think because we could not handle the intensity of our love. We split. Now 6 months later we are in touch again (through email) and we moved away from each other after our split. We are again proclaiming our undying love for one another but I am scared. Is love real? or is it just brain chemistry? If I let him in my life again will I find myself in the depths of sorrow again? I am confused as to why I spend hours crying over him and so I ask, is this love real? If not, does it just come down to mere brain chemistry and also, if it is not real, how could life play such a evil of love of me?
2006-10-28 14:16:15 · 4 answers · asked by applecheeks 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
oops...I meant to write..how could life play such an evil game of love with me?
2006-10-28 14:17:54 · update #1
My ex and I did the same thing for five years. U need to ask yourself why u broke up. Think about the small day to day things that drove u apart. No one breaks up because they are to much in love. If u haven't dated anyone else nor he it might be the good times that bring u two back to one another but bad times will reemerge. Be careful in your decision. Make sure its not an obsession with each other or with the idea of being in love. I know it sucks but sometimes love isn't enough to keep two people together. Good luck
2006-10-29 05:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by dustin g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thought - there's an old saying that absence makes the heart grow fonder and ...
yes it might be real love or it might be a figment of you imagination. or it may be some infatuation.
No one but you can truly decide how to proceed but if you feel it is not goign to turn out well once again, then feel free to find another on which to shower yoru affections.
2006-10-28 21:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can just say that life doesn't play you. You make the decisions. Love is partly a choice and it's also hard work. It's about sacrifice and compromise. It's not so much logic, but feeling.
2006-10-28 21:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by nathan_p84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is very real, and it's what you make it
2006-10-28 21:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by Katrina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋