2006-10-28 14:13:11 · 25 answers · asked by EB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Despite the answers from women who seem to accept this as ok, it's NOT ok. Porn destroys relationships. Those women who tell you to view it with you, are in denial of their own hard wiring.
Tell your fiance that porn objectifies women, that you are upset with him getting aroused over these fantasy women, and that he needs to respect your feelings. Through technology porn has become widely available, and men easily become addicted. Stand your ground and tell him you hate it.
2006-10-28 19:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by ragged 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maximum adult males do seem at porn in my opinion. that would not propose all of them do however the possibilities of a guy staring at porn are good! Wether it extremely is cheating or no longer....who's attentive to. My fiance is attentive to i do no longer choose for him staring at that stuff and that i believe him adequate to be attentive to that he's not any longer. he's merely too bz taking part in that WoW game besides! i think of you ought to confront him relating to the issue and communicate approximately it in a mature way! Getting all disillusioned won't help! you're able to desire to set him down and tell him the way you sense and what you will tolerate! in case you do no longer choose for him doing this, then enable him be attentive to lady! don't be afraid, you ought to not at all compromise the way you sense in the direction of something! GL!
2016-11-26 01:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by mcmorris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't marry him it won't stop it will get worst, my sis got the same problem after few yearsi think he is so addicted to it they have 2 kids it was very hard for her but my sis finally had it and divorced him. the thing is if you talked to him about it he will just say it will stop once you two are married but trust me it won't and you end up second eventually you are nothing. And for those people who said join in they've got to be joking, he is doing these because it's a bad habit and i doubt if he wants you to join in he's most likely watching it while you're not around. BAD BAD BAD.
DON'T MARRY HIM It won't last. Just a heartache.
2006-10-29 16:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by Ally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be wondering what they get out of it. What does some bimbo on the Internet offer that I can't give him? Are you there for just sex or is there an emotional connection. Does he respect women at all? Whose bed will he go to every time we have a spat.
2006-10-28 14:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give back the ring, cancel the wedding and end the relationship. Otherwise, you'll have a husband looking up porn all the time on the Internet.
2006-10-28 14:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hey Violet,,, no mention of what sex the fiancee is,,, why do you assume it is a male... Ladies look at porn also...You must really hate men ..
2006-10-28 14:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by Bob G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its completely normal. Well all the time can mean many things but 1-2 times a day should be normal on average. but hey this is my opinon.
2006-10-28 14:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by SummerRain Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy obsessed with porn and doing it when he knows It upsets you is setting you up for failure. I would look for a guy who respects you and your wishes. Don't be second to any fantasy, you cannot compete with fantasy.
2006-10-28 14:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by r g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah join him.And ask him about the sexlife you guys have.Whether he's missing something,would like to try something new...etc.Man get turned on by watching that stuff.That alone is not really areason to worry,unless he seems obsessed with it.
2006-10-28 14:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to look for a normal person. Get rid of this jerk.
Are you male or female?
A fiance is a male; fiancee is a female.
2006-10-28 14:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋