Sometimes when i'm at home I like to go through my wife's closet and take out a nice dress or skirt and dress up in front of the mirror. I like to wear her lipstick and eyeliner but not much other make up. I don't go out in public, I just like to feel glamorous walking around the house sometimes. Sometimes i will wear one of her nighties to bed. I also love her cardigan sweaters!! They feel so soft. Anyways, my wife is always criticizing me saying I look gay and she married a man not a woman and all this. This really hurts my feelings because I want her to think I'm big and strong. I work at a factory. I don't understand what her problem is because she has worn my t shirts to bed. What can I do?
2006-10-28 14:07:39 · 27 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just tell her state out..or roll your eyes and don't answer
2006-10-28 14:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by Volleyballqueen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an interesting story but this is something either you will have to give up or she will have to understand. If she knew about this before you got married I would doubt she would act like this now. This must have just started. Either way, One, it is a waste of make up and, two, is it really that important to your well being to wear her clothes?
2006-10-28 14:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a real man and go shopping for a femine wardrobe of your own, instead of stretching your wife's things out of shape. That's probably what's really bugging her, the idea that you're messing with her things. Now get yourself to Victoria's Secret and get yourself some big girl panties and put them on!! (wear 'em to work, too, while you're at it! you'll feel better ALL DAY!)
2006-10-28 14:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Johnna L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 08:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by bainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of straight guys like to wear womens clothes. Tell her to look up cross dressing, so she can understand. Some women even help thier guys pick outfits of thier own. Also buy your own little secrete wardrope, That way you don't mess up hers. Good luck, hope she learns that you are still a strong man.
2006-10-28 14:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tony H 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you her size? If you're larger than she is, then you're probably stressing the seams of the clothes.
Being a transvestite does not necessarily mean being transgendered or homosexual. It might take some heavy-duty marriage counseling to convince your wife of this. Do you think she would go for marriage counseling? :-(
2006-10-28 14:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by amy02 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, seriously now dude, it is soooo cute if a girl wears something of her husbands or boyfriends to bed!!!!! but if a guy wears her wife or girlfriends make-up and skirts, it is just wierd. im sorry but its just a little creepy. if i was her i would tell you the same thing. sorry dude, but you have problems. like for real!!!!!
2006-10-28 14:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok she wore a TSHIRT to bed u wore her DRESS! big difference boys and girls wear tshirts only girls wear nighties, sorry hun but im taking your wifes side, your obviously not 5 and going through your moms wardrobe with your bro or sis! so id stop it is kinda gay im sorry! but seriously!
2006-10-28 14:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you shouldnt be wearing her make up and clothes. Yes it is kind of gay, and it looks weird. I don't have a grude on anything gay, but it does look kind of stupid. She wears your t shirts, but that is different. T shirts go on all sexes. Skirts and dresses dont.
2006-10-28 14:10:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I noticed from your other questions you are really into shock questions. What kind of thrill does that give you? It's obvious to everyone that these are fraud (unless you watch wrestling) so why even attemt it. Do you answer questions with the same whacko attitude or do you really try to help?
2006-10-28 14:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by delux_version 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try buying your own clothes too wear. Also did she know this about you before? If not then you where not really being honest with her. what do you expect from her.
2006-10-28 14:11:43 · answer #11 · answered by bellydancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋