When you're having sex with someone, does talking dirty make it better or is it better just not saying anything to each other? And is it really true that it's more erotic when the girl screams and moans and stuff like that? THanks!
2006-10-28 13:59:33 · 32 answers · asked by LeBenze 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
dirt don't do it for me...never did... and I think many women just up the screaming a moaning to feed the ego of the male... I have had some tell me this... I had...along time ago... one that was so quite that it was freeky... but she would not let me stop... dang near killed me trying to keep up. she would get so wound up that her vocal cords would not work... litteraly... I was afraid she was oing to break a vein or somthing... Personaly I do not like to end sex being deaf...but it is nice to know when I am doing what is pleasurable... so apropreate auditory signals are nice...
2006-10-28 14:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by IdahoMike 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is better to talk than not say anything. It helps when a partner says "I like that" or "Do this instead"... the talk doesn't have to be dirty, but usually is which is fine. It's also erotic when the guy screams and moans :)
2006-10-28 14:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you how freaky I am regarding this issue, I am a true lover of both, I'm freaky and romantic. I like tit for tat and that's that. I love Both, I am Both and I want Both! Tallk dirty to me baby. Am I a good girl for saying that or have I been naughty with my pouty mouth? Whether you have to have one or the other or screaming pleasing! It's up to you and yours. Great sex and wonderful lovemaking are a combination of all these great things depending on the person, the time or another great factor. Please remember whether or not you like something or not also depends on how good that man makes me feel or how good that women makes you or vice- versa. To each it's own. Dont's worry about being freaked out, I'm not. I might like to be whispered and commanded dirty tasty talk or sexy silence. That's this woman's freaky talk and romantic touch on the matter.
2006-10-28 14:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, from my experience, yes. I liked it when me and my ex used to talk dirty while having sex, it was a real turn on. I always screamed and moaned but, that was because he was so good! He is the only one I have ever talked dirty with. I liked it because I felt comfortable doing that sort of thing with him.
2006-10-28 14:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every one is different
but if you have fun and laugh during sex you will enjoy it a lot more
some people get turned on by screaming an therefore people scream to try to do this
when they are roaring it normally means they are loving the feeling
or faking it
every one is different in the way they are turned on
most stereotype guys will get turned on by pictures and videos
where most stereotype girls will be turned on by words or stories
but we are all turned on by touch
knowing how to touch with the right amount of position strong or soft the sense of touch makes us all go wild
yet using all of the senses will result in the a much more erotic time
2006-10-28 14:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by Zara3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know much about that, my personal ethos dictates that there is no sex without love, but I find it really interesting that people find vocal women a turn on. I was always embarassed because I heard that it was distracting; my only lover said that it sounded like he was killing me, and would always ask if I was okay. But, it's good to know that some people like it, because I sure can't help it. I feel really bad for the people in the dorm who live on either side of me- I hope they have headphones or earplugs ;P
2006-10-28 14:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every person is different. For me, I love it when he talks dirty... but it also depends on what he's saying! If he's a really beefy guy and he's talking about how he wants me to manhandle him, it kills it for me. Know your partner, test the waters and let go.
I do love a talker, groaner and moaner. So many men are so quiet you almost have to wander if they're still awake.
2006-10-28 15:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by yetanothergwm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation...if you are at home and no little ears are near by...no holds barred...Go for the gusto...do whatever feels good! But if you are in a situation where you are a guest, say during a family holiday or something of that nature,discretion is key!
2006-10-28 14:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by auntgnu62 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls know it's a turn-on to make sexual noises for a guy. They'll often make noises to do exactly that. Guys will often utter naughties to a woman too. The rule for chatter that way, is it must exhibit how much she turns you on, how much you want her, as opposed to how naughty you might want things to get. This is actually quite a good question. I see this question is in a homosexual category. My comments may be way off for that world, don't know, frankly.
2006-10-28 14:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by DayinthePark 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That really just depends on the couple.
Different people have different ideas about what they find erotic.
2006-10-28 14:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by knightofsappho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋