okay well i like this guy and he is kinda popular but not the out there popular and i really like him but i wrote him a note and he hasnt wrote back....should i write another one i dont want to bug himn i would be okay if he said no but there still is a chance he does and i neeeed to know!!!!
2006-10-28 13:57:28 · 8 answers · asked by emy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i would go up to him but i had a bad insedent with him, during passing periods i ran into him and nocked all his stuff over, i have not been able to go straight up to him scence than
2006-10-28 14:10:41 · update #1
In today's culture it's ok to let him know you like him. But of course, be careful, dear.
2006-10-28 13:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by DayinthePark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to put yourself out there & take risks. You were very brave to write that note, & even braver to give it to him. He may still be pondering the right response for you, or he may have put it out of his mind. That is the chance you took when you gave him the note.
Now the waiting for him to give you a response is the killer.
He may never come to you & discuss it on his own, no matter what his true feelings are for you.
Now you can either put it out of you mind, & set your sights on someone else, or you can go up to him & ask him to talk to you about the note. I wouldn't try a 2nd note, if he's not going to come & talk to you after the 1st one, then I wouldn't expect him to be prompted by another one.
So either wait & see, or talk to him. It's your choice.
2006-10-28 21:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not send him another note, unless, you want him to know how desperite you are in wanting him. A guy will play with any girl he sees as an opportunity to have sex with. He is interested in sex with many girls. The more opportunity he gets to sleep with a girl, he will. Whether it comes easily by having girls persue him or he will pursue himself. If you want to sleep with him, and have no special relationship, then I would keep sending notes to him, so he can answer one day and sleep with you. Guys like sex alot with many different women, that is our nature. On the other hand, women think that if a guy sleeps with you , that he loves you only. That is just not the case. Of course any guy will say anything to get you to believe him so that he can have sex with you, but after sex. He will say good bye or keep you longer to make you belive he likes you in order to continue to have sex with you and with many other women at the same time. Of course he will hide that fact if he could or when you find out later he will just say oops i got caught and move on his merry way with other women. sorry guy guys are dogs.
2006-10-28 21:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by debater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK
well if u write back b4 he give u ans then u fell in a trap
cause he got u right were he want u
so no
fall back far back matter a fact c what Else is out there
2006-10-28 21:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by dan_ny221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys don't like reading notes. A lot of guys like it more when you tell them face to face what ur true feelings are. I would just tell him but that's just me. Just be careful and don't bug him too much until he tells you how he feels.
2006-10-28 21:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by babygurl18_2005_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just talk to him directly instead of writing notes. You would get your answer quicker and it would me more reliable. Don't be shy! If it's really what you want, go for it!
2006-10-28 21:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother writing him another letter...if he hasnt responded yet then theres no need to waste your time and write another one give it sometime if he never responds then u know he didnt like u in that kind of way....
2006-10-28 21:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets see.....maybe u should go up to him sometime when he is alone and ask him if he will reply ur note....that is wat i would do...but of course just me but it is a possibility he has been busy and hasnt had time to so just try that.....it will hopefully work!!!!
2006-10-28 21:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by ♥~*SiNgLe*~♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋