do you think if a boy calls you ever day they like you but they say they dont they just want to be friends.

Question

but when you get on the subject of dateing they say no

Answer 1

You should find out what makes you so interesting to him, for him to call you all of the time. If there is a subject or hobby that you both have in common, then maybe he just wants to be friends because you are able to help each other. If he says he likes to hang out just because maybe you tolerate him or are kind to him, and others are not, or he feels that he doesn't fit in with others, that would be another reason for just being friends.
However, he might be a virgin, or doesn't have much experience with the opposite sex, or just doesn't know how to talk with females, except you. Either way, if you like him, and don't want to be just friends, then you need to let him know. These type of relationships sometimes wind up turning into deeper relationships, but not always. I personally don't believe that men and women can just be friends, especially "good" friends, without it becoming a more intimate relationship, but that is just my opinion, with much experience! Nevertheless, if he is not interested in dating, and you are, then don't allow him to prevent you from seeing other guys, because it might cause other guys to think he is your BF, and they will probably avoid you. He will be "blocking" your social life.

Answer 2

i odn't know if this is true. i'm having the same problem right now 2. i talk 2 a boy everynight, but he says he doesn't like me. he acts like it thouhg. if he acts like it ask him if he likes u. if u r best friends tell him 2 tell u the truth and then u guys can talk about a lot more. that's how it happened 2 me and it's been great ever since. answer the question, how should i tell Jake the way i feel? plz!!!!!!!!!!! i need help 2

Answer 3

sounds like he doesnt exactly know what he wants out of you, but he is trying to play it safe, which isnt good. He doesnt have enough confidance in himself, let him go until he can take action. Girls like guys who know what they want and go after it, not take their time and slowly get to know you, cause that NEVER works. I did it b4 and im not with that girl, now im with a girl cause i told her straight up, "ive know you long enough to know that i want to know you more and spend time with you" and i got her. Dont take him seriously till he starts to be more of a man and asks you out, cause pretty much hes setting himself to just be your friend. Or maybe he's gay. *shrugs shoulders* IDK

Answer 4

start flitering with other guys and see what he goes. maybe he's just scared it will ruin the friendship. and if that doesn't work only talk on the phone with him for a little while. but you can still just ignore some of his calls

Answer 5

i phone my friend everyday and we talk for hrs that doesnot mean i like him,it's just i feel comfertable when i talk to him as a friend,and coz i want to have a friend who i tell him about all the news has happened to me eachday