She was gay and this disdurbed me very much does this mean im gonna be that 2 and is she gay i mean idk cause i dont want ppl thinkin shes freakin gay
2006-10-28 13:28:18 · 14 answers · asked by Wow gurl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I dont want ppl to think im gay!!!!!!!!!!can living with some1 like that make u gay?cause im gonna hate her 4 ever if thats tru
2006-10-28 13:43:50 · update #1
You need to stop being a homophobe and repressing your own latent feelings.
2006-10-28 13:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by turkeyphant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freakin gay? Kinda young to be such a little hater eh?
Ok, here is what I say to your question, if she is gay, she is way to young to ACT on it. Let time take its course. If she turns out to be gay, you are her sister, and if you desert her or treat her differently, you will hurt her very much and possibly destroy the course of your relationship as sisters.
I dont understand why you ask if this means are you gonna be gay 2? Perhaps you are harboring some feelings that you need to go to your school counceler and talk about?
Either way, dont worry about what people think about either one of you, be who u are, let her be who she is, and dont let peoples opinions of you decide what you do in life.
Sorry if this was confusing for you at your age, I dont know how else to explain it to a 14 yr old.
2006-10-28 13:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At fourteen, you should be a bit more knowledgable than you seem to be. NO. you aren't going to be gay just because she is, and NO, the fact that shes a tomboy doesn't make her gay. And don't make the mistake of worrying more about public perception of your sister (who is a CHILD, nobody should be worrying about her sexuality!) than you do about looking out for her. Thats your job, you're her big sister. Get it together. You're too old to be acting so silly about something so minor.
2006-10-28 15:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Haha. Get over it.
If she does happen to be gay, you won't know for a couple of years... I was very tomboyish when I was younger, and so were most of my friends (yes, even the straight girls!)
So it's very possible that your sister is just a tomboy and she will grow out of it, and if not... oh well, its her life, leave her alone
2006-10-28 15:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by llsoinlovell 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A lot of girls are tomboyish and not gay at all. And it's a normal phase for young girls. I've actually known some tomboys who were really into guys. So how tomboyish is she? Email me for some support. I'm straight myself. my email is gurlygurl20000@yahoo.com
Yes, I've always been kind of a girly girl and never a tomboy, though I'm not overly girly.
2006-10-28 15:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here is a question,if someday your sister tells you she is gay,and you walk home from school and you see someone pushing her into a corner are you gonna walk away or defend her?
She is your sister and way to young to know her sexuality,but the choice should be her's and you have a choice to respect that on lose a sister.
2006-10-28 13:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being a tomboy doesn't make one gay. Just because someone is related to someone else who is gay, wouldn't mean that they're likely to be gay. If she is gay, it really wouldn't be that big of deal than some people might make of it.
2006-10-28 14:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by R.Wings 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're very cruel, and I hope this question was a joke. If not, your sister would be better off without an idiot like you in the family - fortunately for her, I don't think moronicity is any more 'catching' than homosexuality.
2006-10-28 23:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by JBoy Wonder 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up, she's just a tomboy, how stupid is that. And you know what if she is gay who cares. And if other people think you're gay because they think you sister is gay, then they are just as stupid as this question. LIVE LIFE AND BE HAPPY! She is your sister be there for each other.
2006-10-28 15:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok one thing is she's only 9, just because she's very tomboyish, doesn't mean she's gay... Maybe you could ask her in a polite way, if she is... I don't think at 14 you should worry too much about what her sexuality is, she's blood, she's family, and she's only 9...
2006-10-28 13:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by bek 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell him what you told Answers-that she is a tomboy, and that he is spending way too much time thinking about the sexuality of a 9 year old girl. I'd warn her to keep her distance from him, and tell hm the same-to stay away from your sister.
2006-10-28 13:39:48 · answer #11 · answered by gettin'real 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋