I posted about my shock at the amount of enablers on this site and your response solidified my point!! There is nothing normal about being jealous, except to you and those like you!!
You said: it is normal to be jealous the difference is in how jealous you are and how you handle it (if you talk to the person who is making you jealous, ignore it and give people the benefit of the doubt, or get angry)i think that it's just self-righteous to say that it's not normal to be jealous because everyone has been jealous. jealousy is a way of protecting yourself--a defense mechanism. ALL OF THIS SOUNDS STUPID and I feel sorry for your partners in your life!
No, everybody dont get jealous and everybody dont tolerate it for the sake of love either....you have a lot of growing up to do....as I see a lot of others on here do too.
2006-10-28 13:15:21 · 3 answers · asked by stephanie_6234 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stephanie: Please go easy on people. Believe it or not, most people mean well when they post a reply on this site. Seldom do they go out to intentionally be the way you think. It is easy to misjudge any given situation especially, the way some people "word" a question or a response to one. What you say in your post "question" above may contain some truth but please don't "fire" at people using their net name i.e. "Julia Q". The conclusion of your question sounds so grandiose re: "you have a lot of growing up to do ... as I see a lot of others on here do too" !
Remember; everyone, at times, has both, said and done dumb things !!! Go easy on people!!!
2006-10-28 13:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
opinions are like assholes, everyone has one but not everyone wants to hear it. Why ask a question if u are not prepared for both positive and negative feedback?
2006-10-28 13:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by bundybitch77 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why are you bothered by her opinion?
2006-10-28 13:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋