i have a best guy friend and we always used to do everything together til i got a boyfriend. my guy friend is really upset cos we dont do anything really with each other anymore because i now include my partner when we do go out. i feel i cant have a close bond with a man other than my partner but he thinks i have ditched him. when he got a girlfriend, he still put me first and i thought it was wrong. do you know what i mean? should i still be doing things with just him cos we are just friends but he's a guy?
2006-10-28 13:13:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your male friend...if he is a good friend, will understand that you are now in a committed relationship and will move on with his own life. I used to think male friends could stick around even though I was with a committed boyfriend, but in realilty it just doesn't work. It doesn't mean you no longer like your friend, it just means you are making a choice in your life to be with someone you love or want to love more and he (your friend) needs to respect that. He should feel uncomfortable going out with you and your boyfriend. Your boyfriend should also be feeling uncomfortable and he has every right to ask you to stop seeing this other man if you really want to be with him.
2006-10-28 13:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by tlcgirl2go 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he likes you, stevie wonder can see that.
If you want to hang out with him go ahead that cool... as long as there is a line you dont cross (once you do there is no going back). How does your partner feels about this?
As for your last question - it didnt really bother you he is a guy at the begining so what has changed?
Hope you'll find the best way to figure it out!
2006-10-28 13:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Joy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you uncomfortable because your new boyfriend is? I agree that your boyfriend should have high priority, but it really depends on where you are in the relationship. If you are not serious, then see your friend whenever. If you are serious, then talk to your boyfriend about it, after all, he should be your best friend. Most of the guys I know, only are friends with a girl to see if maybe someday it leads to more, even if they are in denial about it.
2006-10-28 13:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by gardengirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys come and go but friends are forever. Even guy friends. If you value the friendship then don't ditch him completely because you and your current BF may break up and he will be there for you just when you need him. Don't push him away!
2006-10-28 13:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by anything2getin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the saying is true friends do come before guys. Your guy friend deserves a better friend than you. so you have a boyfriend that doesnt mean you should get rid of your guy friends and hopefully your bf doesnt get jealous cuz then thats a prob just spend more time with your guy friend
2006-10-28 13:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your chum. regardless of if that's purely a count of desirous to flow to this adventure escorted, and not a "boyfriend/female chum component", your chum will the two understand and assist you or sense so strongly against it which you ought to evaluate looking yet another date. in keeping with possibility you and a few girlfriends can flow on your promenade mutually, no dates, no stress.
2016-11-26 01:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a very difficult position, I think perhaps your guy friend had hopes of being your boy friend, if this is possible, then you have to tell him that this will or will not happen.
2006-10-28 13:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend will realise that a bf will come first but you should always find time to be with friends
2006-10-28 20:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember friends come first..........You can still have fun with your boyfriend but never forget your friends.What will happen if this boyfriend dumps you?Who will you turn to?
2006-10-28 13:20:02 · answer #9 · answered by ms.biatch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should still be doing with him as friends even though you have a bf. but you should put your bf first, as it sounds like you would do.
2006-10-28 13:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by bobwilliams283 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋