with me because of the age gap which is 4 years. There have been previous problems in the past. Once he kissed me and then ignored me for 6 months because he liked another girl.He then came back to me and said he regretted everything and was wondering if i was still interested in him. I said yes, my feelings were still strong, but ever since then it seems to me as if hes just messing me around. When i went out with my boyfriend not long ago he said he didnt like me the way i liked him, but a few weeks later he admitted he still likes me but didnt wnt to say anything incase he interfered with me and my boyfriends relationship. He was saying cute things that convinced me he still had feelings for me, but when I split up with my boyfriend he didnt seem really interested. We've always had a discussion about waiting till i turn 16 for a full on relationship but i dont know wether this is just for sex or not? He says he wouldnt force me into anything if we did, he'd wait. Shld I go4 itor nt?
2006-10-28 13:08:53 · 23 answers · asked by rachel h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Keep away from him..hes an idiot...you might be younger but he acts younger..hes a paedophile.
2006-10-28 14:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ignore him. If there have been previous problems, do you really want get into a relationship where you know there are problems going in? Also, it seems to me that he keeps going back and forth with you because HE CAN, not because he has any real interest in you. He's been manipulating you and trying to see what he can get away with. He kissed you, then ignored you.
He SAID he regretted everything and wanted to know if you were still interested; you told him you were. Then he said he didn't like you that way. Come on...this guy is being a prick.
You split up with your boyfriend, you aren't sure whether or not this guy wants you just for sex. Does being his girlfriend sound like a good idea to you? Plus, I don't know what the rules are where you live, but here in the States he could be busted for statutory rape, even if the sex was consensual.
He's proved that he's a low life and unworthy so many times. Leave him alone. I guarantee you if you tell him to back off, he'll continue to snoop around...BECAUSE HE'S BEEN TOLD "NO," NOT BECAUSE HE WANTS A TRUE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU.
You're instincts already tell you he's up to no good. What more do you need?
2006-10-28 13:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOT!!! You are 15 yrs. old. What in the world are you in such a hurry for? Ask yourself this question. If you think that you are ready for sex, then does that mean you are ready to start a family? Are you ready to accept that birth control, in any form, is not 100% foolproof? Can you see yourself as a mom, at 16?. Changing diapers, while your friends are playing volleyball, or going to the movies, or to the pool! And even if you can find a babysitter, will you be so wrapped up in what you are doing, that you won't be asking yourself, shouldn't I be getting home. The responsiblities of being a parent are endless. Now, on the legal, or should I say, illegal side of things. Depending upon where you are from, and what the laws are in your state. This lad that you really like could very well be arrested. You are a minor. You should ask yourself, "What would a 19 yr. old adult want with a 15 yr. old?" He must be a control freak. He will not think of you when he becomes legal to drink. You won't be legal. He could find another girl to be with for those times. YOu will be his "secret". Get your head on straight, honey. Forget about the boys. Make your education #1. Finish school, go to college and get that degree, then think about men. Once you start to have children you may want to stay home to raise them. After that, you will have your degree to turn to after your children are in school full time. And for goodness sakes, HAVE FUN WITH YOUR GIRLFRIENDS.
Don't push it, you have lots of time.
2006-10-28 13:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by margierosie1026 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you live, but in most civilized parts of the world a 19 year old boy involved with a 15 year old girl could wind up in jail. Any 15 year old girl should be considered jail bait by any man over 18. Sounds like he may be playing with fire but is smart enough not to touch the flames. Date guys your own age, leave the men alone until you are of age.
2006-10-28 13:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by Country girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it.....I mean, nothing personal, but if he's nineteen, and wanting to date a fifteen year old, something is wrong. No matter how mature, or how pretty or how smart you may be, there are just certain parts of our brains that don't develop until a certain age. I also must say, if you're asking this question online, you must feel somewhat ashamed to not be talking to friends, or family? Just remember you have how many years ahead to date those cute nineteen year olds? This one is a dime a dozen.
2006-10-28 13:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
he's 19 he's not sure what he wants in life and it may be 4 sex don't do it trust me if he is not devoted now how do you think he ll be after that? he'll ignore you even more maybe regreting doing it with a minor or someone he may not love nor care for once the mouse (he) get the cookie (sex) he'll only want more and more no matter wat u say unless u make him comitt then he'll respect wat he gets and he'll respect u for waiting insead of giving it away. Men love a women who plays hard to get not one who is always there waiting so tease him a little make him work not too hard but be a little aggrestive to his likeing and u'll hav him to yourself. Don't ever for get that an older guy will play with your heart without meaning to. good luck. this is only advise the ultamite desion only u can make. Keep your witts about u
2006-10-28 13:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by Skye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that this 19 yr old guy isn't exactly sure what he wants. You are 15 you shouldn't be spending a lot of time worrying about this just let it go for now and if its meant to happen it will. but please do not stop living your life over a boy. I did this and had two kids by the time i was 16.
2006-10-28 13:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are so young to be worrying about this situation. Be yourself always, meaning in all ways. You have so much ahead of you that you don't even realize. Life is hard enough without the issues of boys and men. You will get over both eventually. I wish you the very best.
2006-10-28 13:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by Maggie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no 4get him ur 15 hes jus messin u about bcos ur ther 4 him wen no1 else is, it prob is jus a sex thing, hes a guy, go 4 sum1 more ur age or even jus sum1 who respects u more, if he really had feelings 4 u age wudnt b a problem, he aint worth it.
2006-10-28 13:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by kelly_louise_88 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes a player. Wants you for sex. I know I have a 15 year old and we talk about these things.you know if a guy knows you like them, no matter your age, they will play you to get what they want. Find someone near your age who wants you for you, not for their convience. I wish you luck, AND i HOPE YOU HEAR WHAT iM SAYING.
2006-10-28 13:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by mybudnoobs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what you feel like, but I don't think that he is a nice guy or someone that you can trust at all..
If I were you, I wouldn't go for it... And actually, besides all the feeling you have for him, you should really try to carry on with your life...
2006-10-28 13:22:30 · answer #11 · answered by shining_froggy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋