im left out of most things at school. Noone envites me to anything,and i dont know what im doing wrong, I try to get along with everyone try to be friends with everyone,but its like im an out cast.I just dont know why noone likes me and why im made fun of alot. I dont do anything to diserve this. Some one please help me
2006-10-28 13:08:19 · 16 answers · asked by Kenshin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Greetings from Canada!
I'm sorry to hear that you get picked on a lot at school. That must be really tough to have to go there every day and know that you will be left out or made fun of again. You are probably not doing anything wrong at all, its just unfortunate that the time spent in school is such a big part of your life and when there are unpleasant people there, unfortunately, you are stuck with them.
Is there a way that you can invite one person from school to your home after school? Maybe getting to know you better would help the people at school to pick on you less.
Perhaps you could focus on after school activities - does your local YMCA have swimming? Is there a Track & Field club, or Karate? Are you old enough to baby-sit? Do you go to a Church, Mosque or Synagogue where there are Youth Groups? I have found with my own children that the more activities after school that they had and became good at, the more confidence they aquired, the better people at school treated them.
So, increase your out-of-school activities. . . . . .
that will increase you skills and abilities . . . . . .
that will increase your confidence. . . . . . .
and you should have a better time at school.
Even if that doesn't work, you will have more interests and will be meeting more people and widening your circle of friends.
Good Luck!
2006-10-28 13:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am really sorry you have to go through this. You can't change what people think about you and you shouldn't try. You have a few friends and you should really value those friendships to the fullest. While you are in school get all the education you can and stay involved in many things positive. When you get older and you look back at all of those people they will wish they did the things you did and wish they would have had you as a friend. Take care of yourself and remember don't try to change yourself to please other people.
2006-10-28 20:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some people pick on people because they feel bad about thereselves and thats how they cope , but that is no excuse people get picked on because of the way they dress the way they look the amount of money there family makes anything really . its not you and im sorry you are going through this it's very sad and unfortunate , dont beat yourself up about it they dont know what they are missing and you stay real because these type of people that are treating you like this doesnt deserve you as there friend anyway , you do not need them .
2006-10-28 20:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me your not doing anything wrong don't feel left out there are lots of people who care about you your not an outcast you will meet different people no matter where you go some will like you and some won't that's just a part of life the peolpe who pick on you are very cruel hey could be jealous of you to don't pay them any mind they are foolish and they want to make you miserable like they are
2006-10-28 20:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by rayray17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about that way. Think of nice, wonderful and happy thoughts! If people treats you that way, then they are not worth to be befriended. If they make fun of you, just ignore them. If you are getting picked on school, tell your parents about it so that they'll be the ones who'll talk to the school principal about it.
2006-10-28 20:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this will happen alot! believe me, i go to a middle school! it sucks! but you will eventually find friends if you talk to people who LIKE you!
oh, and dont tell the principal about it! NO ONE likes a tattletale. Its best to just stay away from people who are mean! just go find people who sit alone and try to make friends with them! do people make of someone else too? if they do, go and try to make friends with that person!
2006-10-28 20:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by anastaysia s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok check this out,when i was in school i was extremely poor,,therefore looked down on by all the little spoiled kids,,,whick was most of the school,,,but i decided to do something about it,,,i started wlking with my head held high,setting byside who ever i wanted to set by and pick back at people who picked at me,,,pretty soon they saw it didnt do any good to pick on me cause it didnt make me feel bad,and thats all those bullys want is for you to feel bad.just remember what my daddy allways told me"your no better than noone else in the world,but noone else in the world is no better than you are",,remember its all in how you carry yourself
2006-10-28 20:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off.. Dont try to hard .. Nobody likes anyone who tries to be liked too much.
Just relax and realize once your out of school it's a totally new world with totally new people (Ie. college/ work/ etc..)
2006-10-28 20:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by Makai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people taunt people because they are just cruel.and dont feel very good about themselves and that makes them feel better to hurt other peoples feelings. If someone treated me that way I wouldnt want to be friends with them anyways.
What about the people that talk to u are they just not friend material
btw how old r u
2006-10-28 20:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by lovable110 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever think of taking self defense classes not only do they help you with self defense they also teach you to be a better person
2006-10-28 20:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by The gr8t alien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋