i was talking to a guy for almost 2 years nothing romantic ever happen between us but we got along great and we were good friends.oneday we had an arguement and we stopped talking for a while.i didnt expect to ever hear from him again which i was fine with but then for some strange reason he contacted me asking for forgiveness and for us to be friends again like we were.now he has dissapeared without any explanation.he is always doing something dumb but im confused as to why he would contact me again just to do something like this.anyone got any opinion here cuz im confused?
2006-10-28 13:05:11 · 7 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if he was your friend he wouldn't disappear on you like that....tell him to grow up and if he chooses to contact you again explain to him if he does that disappearing act he doesn't have to appear again....
good luck
2006-10-28 13:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by queenzhottie78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was either drunk when he called you (when did he call you?) or he is in serious trouble without you. He might be doing crazy things to get your attention. A friendship can never go back to wher it was. It always changes, every day, every second, every look. What kind of dumb things is he doing? What was the time lapse from the argument and the phone call?
2006-10-28 20:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by hopeisathingwithfeathers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps "can't live with ya - can't live without ya" ! He may simply, be making amends with you prior to moving on. I can tell, that you have an affinity for him. My advice, (being a guy), is to let him be. In the event he decides to reignite the relationship with you, he will. Don't "hound" him - no guy likes a girl chasing him who he deems "not for me". These types of relationships are very "flakey" and don't stand the test of time. If this is an Internet romance, chances are it won't work. -All the best to ya !
2006-10-28 20:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just wanted to see if you would be receptive to him, just to prove a point to himself. Sounds like he could turn out to be a jerk and it's best that you find it out now. Should he contact you again, tell him that it's best to leave things as they are and that you plan to get on with your life and that he should as well.
2006-10-28 20:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by Dee F 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
are they dating someone new? usually they do weird things like that when they start dating someone. they will contact you again.
2006-10-28 20:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by innocentkitty214 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he wants to end it with sex dear!!!!...just make him happy and do it. i bet you wont hear from him again...lol
2006-10-28 20:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by mikey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's confused too
2006-10-28 20:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by chi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋