I have alot of friends... but only in the mid-popularity
I feel constantly left out of things adn I'm trying really hard to keep the friends I have and make popular new ones so I can go to good parties!... do you have any tricks or secrets???
2006-10-28 13:05:10 · 11 answers · asked by elemenopee. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
trust me on this i had to learn the hard way it doesn't matter how popular your friends are that you have right now dint ignore them or even try to make new more popular friends besides the more popular the meaner if you get more popular friends you'll end up neglecting your old friends and then they will forget about you and if that doesn't happen then your new popular friends will tell you to dump them because they are not popular trust me it doesn't matter how popular the friends are all that matters is that you and your friends have a good time together be happy that
jyou have those good friend dont start anything and ruin your
friendship just be a good friend popularity doesn't matter and throw your own party
just make sure to BE YOUR SELF
2006-10-28 13:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the only reson your the popular kids friends then what's a friends if your on there friend to go to partys i'm sorry but i don''t think that is a really good friend . Friends r friends because they want to be friends for who u r not what u do or what u have a friendship is an aportant part in life so i don't know what to say if u only have popular friends for there partys. I'm sorry.
2006-10-28 20:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by ?HOTTIE? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the wrong agenda in life. Stop trying to be popular. Just be yourself. A loving caring person and you will be popular.
2006-10-29 08:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol maybe this came really easy to me, and maybe not so easy for others, but I just made friends with everyone. I didnt care about "popular" people, I knew everyone, and everyone knew me, thats prettymuch what popular is, as for the parties, just ask people where the parties at, simple!
2006-10-28 20:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by Stacy K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My god, you kids are crazy! Take a trip to Mexico or any European country - People there have few friends, but they are good friends, real friends! Why would you want to have more friends than you need? That's called greed(hehe, rhyme). And if its hard for you to keep the friends you have, then its obvious you aren't ready to make new ones. You are young now, but pretty soon you'll realize that it won't make you happy anymore.
2006-10-28 20:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by nerveserver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't mess with it.....popularity is so not important.......work on getting good friends that really care about you, and then throw your own kick butt parties!
Being "popular" will only get you into trouble no matter how you compromise....
2006-10-28 20:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to brag but i am really popular at my school and when ever I let people in to my group i always look for this is them....
~being themselves (when ppl try to impress ppl they often act really stupid lol)
~ cuteclothes ( you can always mix stuff from wal-mart to make a cute oufit)
~NOT WEARING TO MUCH MAKE UP (lots of ppl where to much make-up and it looks really gross)
~ not doing stuff like being all over guys. That just looks bad and they probly won't want to hang with you.
hope this helps :]
2006-10-28 20:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by Flordia Keyss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and try hosting some parties so you'll be invited to more. Trust me it works.
2006-10-28 20:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by none 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying to make people like you and just be yourself but its good that your not dropping any of yur friends
2006-10-28 23:34:44 · answer #9 · answered by legion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really be urself dont worry about popularity its stupid
2006-10-29 09:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋