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I've been married for 41/2 yrs and I feel like I've fallen out of love with my husband, what can I do??

2006-10-28 13:04:14 · 5 answers · asked by Craig & Shelly S 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Have you fallen out of love? Or has your love changed, and you don't recognize it? Who is the person that you care most deeply for? (Other than any kids you may have). If it is your husband, you have simply fallen out of "romantic love" and fallen into a less recognizable state. Try dating again! Have him drop you off at a restaurant, circle the block, come back, and ask if he can join you for lunch, dinner, etc. Try to fall into that "romantic love" again. It just needs re-kindling.

2006-10-28 13:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by Insufferable Know-It-All 3 · 0 0

You haven't fallen out of love. Your just in a rut. My hubby went thru this a few years back. As we worked thru it he realize that the still loved me but with all the stress that we were both under it changed the way we looked at each other. We started to date again at lease once a month if not once a week and things are looking better. We still have our problems but the dates gets us to let our hair down and have fun again. With 2 kids and both with full time jobs it can be hard to have a date but you both need it. Best of luck!

2006-10-28 13:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by lovedietdp 2 · 0 0

I dont think you have fallin out of love with your husband i think you have just lost that spark the two of u used to have....

the main part of a relationship i think is keeping the spark alive and when you lose it u got to get it back again and when u lose it the next time get it back yet again and again and again the spark comes and goes but thats the fun of getting it back again

2006-10-28 13:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by lovable110 2 · 1 0

Love is a verb not a feeling. Now go love (action) your husband. Good luck.

2006-10-28 13:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ahh but do you still like him? Love doesn't have to be all high lustful rose colored glasses crapola!! Is he still dear to your heart???

2006-10-28 13:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0 0

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