First of all, we've been married almost 16 years. But recently my husband has just gotten up and left the room after sex. We can have mind blowing, incredible sex, and as soon as he's done, he gets up, puts his clothes on and goes in the other room. He's done that twice now. I don't get it. It's not that I feel this need to cuddle afterward, but he could say something. He could at least act like he enjoyed it. Why does he do this?
2006-10-28 12:58:39 · 11 answers · asked by A 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd kind of expect him to pass out.
Find a quiet time when you can sit with him and ask him..."Hon, what is it that makes you get dressed right after sex lately?" Tell him his behavior makes you uncomfortable and that you love and miss having him next to you for a little bit after such intimate contact.
2006-10-28 13:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Some men just feel the need to do weird things. LOL Mine falls right to sleep, and so do I. No need to cuddle. Usually just eat some food watch a little T.V, and ZZZZZzzzzz! LOL If he goes in the other room join him!
2006-10-28 13:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by Nerds Rule! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what is going on with him, but I can understand your bewilderment. You need to ask him in a gentle way. Tell him you've noticed it twice now and are wandering if it means anything.
2006-10-28 13:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang he didnt even cuddle for lil bit??? Thats lame!! My husband usually stays there for a while before he gets up. I dont know what to tell you. You would have to talk to him about this issue.
2006-10-28 13:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens when you ask him to stay and talk with you after sex? Maybe he doesn't know that he's acting strange.
2006-10-28 13:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Carole44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Lot of times, a heart-to-heart talk does the trick.Maybe he has something to say, but don't know where to start. If you take the initiative, it will be easy for him.
2006-10-28 13:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by Pearl J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes guys just do that. alot of them go to the bathroom to clean up... some want to watch tv... and some fall asleep. my husband does all 3... and sometimes he just gets dressed and tells me to get dressed b/c now that he is energized we are going out... not sure why guys do it, but i have to say i have done it too...
2006-10-28 13:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by innocentkitty214 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes man feel uncomfortable after sex and cannot tell you, should love and ask him any problem you can fix for him, make him feel easy and tell you his problem
2006-10-28 13:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose direct questions have led nowhere?
That is very odd behaviro
2006-10-28 13:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask him about it and if he has always done this its a bit late to ask now
2006-10-28 13:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋