help i have a husband we have been married 4 three yr. i love him in my heart , but not as a person. he acts like a 2 yr old. he takes a bath only on the weekends and hes a dibetic, he wants sex but can not get things to work because hes a heart patient.. and now hes got a fungus on his body [ large spots ] because he dont bath.... i am not a nasty person i just want a normal life.... and it dont help to talk to him nor to have his dr .or pastor talk to him
2006-10-28 12:57:18 · 7 answers · asked by sissy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I'm sorry but he seems to be the nasty person.When it comes to someone not taking a bath for a freaking week-that is nasty.TELL HIM how you feel and that you're disgusted by his behavior.Tell him that you love him but that his behavior is not acceptable at all.
2006-10-28 13:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YUK! That is the nastiest damn thing I've heard in a while! You tell that baby-acting, fungus growing, B.O. spewing idiot to stop acting like a Frenchman or you are going to leave!
Honey, men don't take hints...we have to be TOLD things if you expect results...though I don't know if anything will help this @ss out except Brillo and bleach.
Damn!
2006-10-28 20:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based upon what you describe, your husband needs a psychiatric assessment. He may be depressed and unable to crawl out. If he refuses medical treatment when it is indicated, talk to his doctor and he can be forcibly brought in for assessment. Are there other family members or a friend that he connects with? My guess is he is clinically depressed and the only way to treat it is with medication. Insist and if he refuses get recommendation from his doctor and follow advice. If he appears to be failing in any way, call an ambulance.
2006-10-28 20:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what the bathing thing is not even a issue involving you he know better. Nobody wants to have sex with a dirty person, tell him to get his *ss up and take a **mn bath
2006-10-28 20:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by antwone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you and your husband need to speak with someone who is a professional to change some of his self destructive patterns. He sounds as if he has serious health issues that will hasten his demise. In addition, this is going to continue to cause serious problems with your marriage. Good luck.
2006-10-28 20:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would i do.... first I'd laugh at him.... second stop laughing at him after a week or so.... third start laughing at him again, then dump his sorry a$$
2006-10-28 20:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by Carpe Diem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
our d-i-v-o-r-c-e becomes final today. Hint?????
2006-10-28 22:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by sc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋