so I dont know if I am bi or lesbion. or stright? I am scared to come out becuase im not sure what people will think? also does anyone know if there is a way to find out for sure? like a test or anything email me sweetsixteen10@yahoo.com.
btw I am in my highschool years if that helps analyzing.
2006-10-28 12:51:40 · 5 answers · asked by ocfan 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You have to be true and honest with yourself before you can come out. Just be friends with everyone: all guys and gals in your school and just be yourself for now coz it will take time and patience for you to know who you really are. Heck, I'm still in that process, I mean, I know I like women but admiting it to myself and coming out is gonna be difficult... so remember that you're not alone.
Why not research in your school library (or the public library) about homosexuality or coming out issues, etc. Of course there's also the internet, lots of info on sexual orientation. Just do a search on the topic. Or maybe join a gay/lez alliance (if u have that in your school). Also, check for LGBT communities in your area and join up. Even ask your guidance counselor for info. He/she may give u brochures or whatnot. There are lots of ways to find out. Just do your part and do your research. Hope this helped. Good luck!
2006-10-28 19:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by mags 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can tell you is to try a bi relationship an see. If you bi or a lesbion you'll know then. I'm bi-curious myself and looking for someone (I'm a guy and cross-dresser). Let me know what you decide. It's up to you thou not anybody else.
2006-10-28 13:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by toolman40772000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you will KNOW when you figure it out...the only test is as follows:
1. Do you like men?
2. Do you like women?
If you answered yes to # 1 you are straight
If you answered yes to #2 you are Lesbian
and if you answered yes to both you are bisexual....
It is that easy...don't rush yourself...you will figure it out soon enough....you are in highschool so it is too soon to have sex anyhow so just take your time...date a few people and it will become clear....
Good luck! And whatever your preferance is remember you are not weird or bad in any way!!!
2006-10-28 13:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by })i({ J and D's Momma })i({ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with Mandy. Just take a little time, it will become clear to you before long. ... I promise. But I can also promise you if you have been raised in a religious home that you will always battle with questions... My dad is a baptist preacher and I'm his evil twinkie gay son... It's hard ... Just take time....People are really starting to come around to the gay side of life though in general... It isn't near as hard as it use to be..Good Luck
2006-10-28 13:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by matthewkeithsmart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i agree with the first answer and don,t be affraid to express yourself
2006-10-28 14:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by arabiannights250 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋