I've been married for 41/2 yrs and I feel like I've fallen out of love with my husband, what can I do??
2006-10-28 12:45:49 · 10 answers · asked by Craig & Shelly S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You've not fallen out of love with your husband, you've fallen out of infatuation with him. There is a difference. To restore that sense of butterflies in your stomach and your pulse racing, try some sexual role-playing or a romantic getaway. Perhaps you simply need to sexually try something new. I'm not pushing you into something sexual, but sex is the barometer of a relationship. How good your sex life is carries over into your regular life.
2006-10-28 12:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Bastet's kitten 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear this, you should talk to your husband, tell him how you feel about your relationship. Try to work out your problems, both of you guys should get away from everyone and do whatever you guys used to do when you guys met. I hope everything works out between you guys and that your love will be with you guys forever.
2006-10-28 19:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by lady butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in and out of love happens when you are not happy with how the relationship is going. You have to work on bringing the love back when you feel it is slipping away, Have faith.
Good luck & God Bless
2006-10-28 21:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why you feel this way.
What did you or your husband do or didnt do, to make you feel this way
Can it be help by trying to fall back inlove with him (starting over with him)
Communicate and tell things that will make you fell better abou this situation.
2006-10-28 19:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a quiet moment,sit down and think about how your life would be without him by your side.Watch a documentary about US Troops in Iraq and ask yourself how you'd feel if your hubby was deployed and you'd NOT know if he ever came back in one piece.If that leaves you cold then you need a divorce lawyer.
2006-10-28 21:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by natashabrenda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the things that you guys used to do together when you guys were dating. You might start liking him again.
2006-10-28 19:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look im only 12 but ive sufferd previous experinces where ive felt like that (1) and trust me stay with him dont ruin it.
2006-10-28 19:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by Layla S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start dating him again.. do all the cute things you did as a couple..when you first were getting to know eachother
2006-10-28 19:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to reignite what was between you, go to a marriage counselor, have date nights
2006-10-28 19:57:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
butterflies
2006-10-28 19:48:18 · answer #10 · answered by natalia k 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋