Hi!
Im so sad and jealous coz my "guy" friends are so mature than I am.
They are taller and thin and masculin than I am.
And I'm just 4 11 which is my height and waist line of 34.
but we r all in same ages!
what shall I do to forget about thi jealousy.
shud i use steroids or buy that thing u put to ur stomach that makes u thin?
and they all have gf and i don't.
2006-10-28 12:44:06 · 9 answers · asked by ^_^' 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm 13
turning 14 this december
2006-10-28 12:59:58 · update #1
You didn't say how old you were, but my son didn't start maturing until he was about 18 years old. Now he's in his late 20's and about 6'6" and very handsome I might add!
It's normal to feel the way you do....my son worried, fretted, was shy didn't have a girlfriend, but guess what????? That's all changed, so give it time and things will turn around for you too.
Be proud of 'who' you are...not 'what' you are. Girls like guys who are honest, fair, considerate, kind to their mother's, respectful of adults and they love to be 'courted'!
The best place to find a girlfriend is at church socials, after school clubs and etc. attivities at school and church. Dress good, hold you head up, look a person straight in the eyes, smile and be a friend!!
Have you ever thought of asking Jesus to help you?
He will, you know!
2006-10-28 12:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by onemorchatykathy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll never be happy until you are happy with yourself. If your not happy, change it to be happy-in this case, your body.
#1-start going to the gym and give yourself the body that you want!
#2-If you want attention, outdress everyone else. Don't go metro, but give yourself some class.
#3-do not EVER do steroids. I'm not a conservative person, but I'll tell you this-steroids will hurt you more than it will do good. You don't believe me and why should you? The people look GREAT on the outside, but what you don't see are the crazy acne, shrinking genitals, suppressed immune system, etc. Besides, you'd scare any girl away with steroids because they make you irratable and she'd end up leaving you crying. Go about it the natural way bro. If you have the money, you could do lypo, but then after you NEED to go to the gym.
Fix yourself and be happy with you, then the girls will come flying.
2006-10-28 19:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by b-rad 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes I fell jealous because of the same reason..... All my friends has a bf and I don't cause I am short... But I hope one day I will find the perfect guy.. if it will happen for me it eill happen for u
2006-10-28 19:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by caramel chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In time you will come of age ( height and weight) Don't rush it,, When you experience what your friends are now,, they will be has beens and it will new and exciting for you.. Remember all good thing come to those who wait..
2006-10-28 19:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So you're a little different. I'm really tall compared to other girls I know. I'm just under 6'! Don't worry about it, God made you that way because He knew it suited YOU, not everybody else.
2006-10-28 19:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by ?? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
forget being jealous and just hang out. and you will find that special someone someday and they will love you for what's on the inside not the outside. give it time. if you really want muscles the gym is your answer.
2006-10-28 19:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by tonib1989 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off DON'T USE STEROIDS!!!!!
They screw u over "down there" (up to 60%)
and if you really want to get into shape... you should work out and do it the hard way... i should know... i was stuck in the same predicament as you are now.... i worked hard and it took a lot of effort for me to become physically fit/healthy... but i wanted it bad enough to do it.... i did.... i began to look great... i was happier.... it seemed as though school was easier to me... and even better....... girls started to want me to take them out!!!!!!
Don't use the muscle pill.... use your head and work for it......
GOOD LUCK :)
2006-10-28 19:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by the sign 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
work out. and about that height thing youll just have 2 b patient
2006-10-28 20:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by r. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right
2006-10-28 19:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by natalia k 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋