I feel it is the ultimate betrayl. What do I say to them? These 2 were my best friends in the world until yesterday.
2006-10-28 12:07:31 · 20 answers · asked by bundybitch77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First, did the guy know that you were in love with him? It's not clear if you were in a relationship with him or not. But I'm guessing that your best friend must have known. After eleven years, how could she not know?
I wouldn't say anything to them unless they ask. I wouldn't go out of my way to contact them. I don't know if you'll be able to forgive them eventually, and I doubt that you'll be able to forget. They won't be able to do or say anything that can possibly make you feel good right now. So, unless they come to you and ask your forgiveness and are prepared to incur the full force of your wrath, I wouldn't say a thing. Consider it a blessing that you found out now. Take some time to deal with your anger, but don't let it consume you.
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2006-10-28 12:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorri to hear that in the first place. But if your best frie3nd knew u so in love with your boyfriend and she done that to you. You have to ask yourself can u take both of them back as normal. One is ur best friend and one is someone who u loved the most. They both betray you ..you feel upset and anger inside. It's all normal. But the main question is can u live with that situation. A lot of women can't go on with that kind of siutation. Best is to talk it off. Remember.. if he really love you and care about your feelings he wouldnt done this to you!
2006-10-28 13:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by ceci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were "with"this guy and your friend knew, that is heartbreaking. Truly, I feel for you. Even if you and this guy weren't "together" your so called "friend" crossed the line. Don't say anything to them, they know what they did...But hey, live and learn right? You've lived thru this and have learned that they are not friends at all. Friends have respect for each other and love. None of which was shown to you while they were in heat...
2006-10-28 12:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all what are you so upset for? you just stated that these was your best friends one you should just happen to be in love with.if he was your boyfriend than i could understand. if you were that much in love with him why didn't you take it to another level! looks like to me when you were snoozing you were losing him to the other girl.obviously the feelings you had for him he did not have for you because either he did not know that you loved him or he has not the same feelings for you as you had for him so you really have no right to be so upset since all three of you are just friends!
2006-10-28 12:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to be jealous of her for a long time because you were or are in love..I wonder if shes in love with him too?..Its so hard to tell you that you shouldn't be friends with her anymore but I will say to stay away from them for a long time because there will be nothing but pain everytime your near them And everytime your not near them At least this way there not rubbing it in your face,..sorry that you lost to people that you cared for. But after time you will be ok..Keep you options open for bigger and better things because this guy was not ment to be. And keep your chin Way upi!!
2006-10-28 12:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by tazzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth she sounds like a snob and did you say she was 11 that is just plain nasty if i were you i would toally hurt her.and i would tell somebody about her age 11 sleeping with another guy. but how did you find this out?
2006-10-29 09:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is wrong but which relationship do you value more or do you value either enough to fight for them?
it is the ultimate betrayal but remember he had the commitment to you and there is a saying "Ho's before bro's"
either let him go and work it out with your friend or work it out with both but don't lose your friend over sex
i know this won't be the popular answer but it is a real answer this happened to me
2006-10-28 12:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wish them the best, they are not your friends. Look for some real friends.
2006-10-28 12:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop them both, get back out there and find a REAL man who won't cheat on you and a REAL friend who's by you no matter what.
2006-10-28 12:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by chezmoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋