when can i let my friends and family i'm pregnant i'm about 4-5wks?
2006-10-28 11:38:49 · 10 answers · asked by pregnant lady 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
ASAP its the best eva also they will b your rock through out
good luck
2006-10-28 21:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by Trying 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a very personal decision. Ask yourself how you will feel if you miscarry. If you would tell them anyway then why not tell them now. It's very exciting news and difficult to keep to yourself but I think it is still a little 2 early. If you really can't wait 3 months at least wait until you are 8 weeks and have had tests done at the Doc's. I went to the doctor at 7 weeks and got neg results after getting 3 positive tests on hpt's. The other thing you need to consider is do you want everyone to know, if not - can your friends keep a secret. Most people will tell. Congratulations to you.
2006-10-28 11:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much to go on here. If you are a minor. Now is a good time to clue your parents in first. They will be your base of support and you will need their help more now than ever. Your friends will find out in time. That is when you have your parents in the helping side of the front seat. Yes you may expect so shock from them, but that is how the story goes. Of course if you are single or married then that changes how you would present this to your parents first then friends. Are you seeing a pattern here. Parents first. If they are loving and giving, they will be there for you. Your friends will come and go. However your parents will always be your parents. Hope this helps.
2006-10-28 11:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by freesample1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them at around 6-8 weeks. Or when ever you feel like it would be the most fun to tell them. But don't wait to long, or they'll figure it out on their own! But make it fun, i always thought of telling my mom by either calling her up on the phone (or visiting her) and instead of saying "hi mom!" you could say " Hey grandma!" Either that or when your just in general talking tell her by saying something like,"hey mom, i got a question for you, do you think it will be a boy or a girl?" She'll flip with excitement, I'm sure!
2006-10-28 12:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by asprinfree_braindamage_please 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell them any time, but it is recommended o wait until you reach 12 weeks. That is when the risk of miscarriage drops to around 2%. Good luck with your pregnancy.
2006-10-28 11:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are afraid of an early miscarriage, or some other problem, I can understand your earge to wait. Personally, my husband and I couldn't wait to share the big news. Be happy with your news and good luck!
2006-10-28 12:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by celestraof12worlds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask them what they think of u having a baby if they are ok with it then you can tell them simply "good because i am gonna i am pregnant"
if they don't like it then ask them why and then say "well if you think of it that way then my baby will hate you, i am pregnant"
2006-10-28 11:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by Dancing queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shouldve told them the first time you found out. your family is and are the only people ypu will be able to turn to in the future.
2006-10-28 11:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by Demonte'z Wifey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably pretty soon, it will start showing or they will get suspicious if you are throwing up a lot....
2006-10-28 11:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by TRUE GRIT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them now, if you want. Celebrate it! Good luck! :)
2006-10-28 11:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋