I have a girlfriend but she has many problems, she depends on my for everything and I already star to get bored of that. I really love her but I have no freedom...
2006-10-28 11:18:19 · 25 answers · asked by rrocoh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if u really love her then help her
if u dont love her then go away from her and leave her with her problems
2006-10-28 11:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't need a girlfriend. It sounds like your girlfriend has a boyfriend for all the wrong reasons; she needs to deal with her own problems and not make you her savior.
You can't help her with her problems, you can only encourage her to get them worked out. You want to be a boyfriend, not a crutch. The more she depends on you the more you'll resent her. Talk to her and tell her how you feel; I'm sure you won't hurt her feelings on purpose, but she needs to hear how you feel.
2006-10-28 11:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her for your space. Tell her that you really love her, but you'd just like a little more freedom. Remind her that you'll be there for her, but say that some problems are better to solve on your own. Good luck!
2006-10-28 11:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by Becca M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It appears that this particular relationship will not last. Hopefully it won't damage you to the point you can't believe there are some women that you can be in a relationship with that will allow you all the freedom you want.
Only you can answer your question.
2006-10-28 11:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by upcomingplayer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she don't have a problem she just love you too much and when a girl depends on you for eveything thats good from my point a veiw that really good. And why you get bored you don't of to be
2006-10-28 11:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie-lee B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't need a girlfriend. Go with your heart. If you really love her,tell her what you just said,but in a nicer way and then help her to learn how to do more things without your help,don't be her enabler. Whatever you decide to do,be nice about it.Later in life you will be very glad you were nice to her,even if you do decide to break up with her. Good luck.
2006-10-28 11:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are bored and feel like you have no freedom then she is probably not the girl for you, a lot of people confuse lust and dependancy with love. They aren't the same thing.
2006-10-28 11:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by monkeymagic6966 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't NEED a girlfriend, it shouldn't define your happiness in life. But if it adds to your happiness, then it's great. If you really love her, then you should probably talk to her about this stuff. If you talk and nothing gets better, then you might want to think about taking a break.
2006-10-28 11:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by sarah belle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound like it may be time to go your separate ways - both people are meant to get something positive out of a relationship. But be gentle with her - sound like she's a bit fragile at the moment.
2006-10-28 11:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't really love her. If you did you would not feel this way. Do her a favor and set her free. You both deserve better.
Being solo is better than being in a lame relationship.
2006-10-28 11:22:56 · answer #10 · answered by anirbas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let her know how your feeling, if not things for you will only get worse. Tell her you need to be with the guys for a change or just some time to do things for yourself.
2006-10-28 11:20:30 · answer #11 · answered by Cas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋