ok, I'm a White Dude But I Like This Black Girl in my Class?

Question

I just want me a sexy girl like in those Videos that can shake her azz real nice and just be sexy and cool at the same time...

So, I like this black girl in one of my classes, but the problem is I go to a real white school where everyone is real uptight etc. so I don't really know how to approach her because I never had a real chance to say something to her.

But I noticed that after class she always goes to the campus bus stop and waits for the bus.

So anyway, I'm thinking about going up to her (as soon as I get over this cold because I don't want to talk to her with a snotty nose and all) and just say something like, 'hey girl, you know, i was thinking since it's kinda cold out here, i need me some hot chocolate.....' Somthing along those lines. Maybe it will make her smile.

also, I'm thinking about telling her that she reminds me of a chocolate dipped strawberry....

So what do you all think? Is that a good approach?

Answer 1

just be your self so that way if will see the real you...

Answer 2

Sorry, but you need a better approach. Those approaches are not respectful, especially since you don't even know her. It would be different if you knew her well and could make jokes along those lines, but it's a bad idea if you are trying to impress her for the first time. You should just go up to her and start a normal conversation with her. She'll either speak with you or ignore you. If she seems agreeable to speaking with you, then strike up conversations daily, and see how things progress from there. And stop talking like a dork about shaking that azz and that other crap you said at the beginning of your question. It makes you sound like you are trying too hard to be cool.

Answer 3

go for it. chances are that she will be pleasantly surprised since you said everyone else at your school is uptight, so she's probably happy to see that at least one guy has the balls to step up to the plate. the thing about hot chocolate, it's all in the delivery. you can say pretty much anything if you know HOW to say it. i don't know how your game is, but if you are a beginner, i would not recommend it, because it could come across as awkward. if you have experience talking to girls, then you can make the joke and i'm sure she wouldn't be offended. if she's offended by a harmless little joke like that, then she's not worth talking to anyway. leave the chocolate dipped strawberry comment for another time when you two know each other better.

Answer 4

I don't think it's a very good approach. Why bring race into the picture? If you're really interested in her, then there are other ways to let her know. Why don't you just suggest the two of you getting together sometime after school? Going to the movies is always a good idea. Something like that. Don't feed her any lines, especially racial ones. There's other ways to make her smile.

Answer 5

That's a great approach.

If you want her to stay away from you and never speak to you again! If someone said that to me, I'd leave. Very quickly! Just be natural and yourself. If that is you being natural, tone it down a bit. Just start chatting to her first. It might take a while, but get to know her. After all, how do you know she's even nice? You mention nothing about her personality, just her looks.

Get to know her a little better before you give her the impression you only want to sleep with her.

Also, refering to her colour (like the chocolate strawberry comment) might actually insult her, as opposed to compliment her, which is, I presume, what you'd be trying to do.

Hope it goes well for you though.

Answer 6

Hey, forget the cheesy come on lines and approach her in an sweet straight forward way. Tell her you would like to get a chance to know her better. Ask her if you can take her to a movie and dinner. And feel your way through the rest. Oh! and offer her movie choice as well as her favorite food spot.

Answer 7

bad aproach.. if you go to a rascist school then first somehow find out if she hates white people.. cause with rascist schools all the diff collor people hate each other.. and do something like first show her you are a nice guy by always saying hi and then when you get the conversation going ask her if she wants a drink(make sure you pay) then ask her out for dinner---dont call her a strawberry... and remember just because everyones rascist dosnt mean you need to be or act to be to fit in...and dont listen to the guy who said "if you mix white with black you get gray so bad idea'' beacause thats the most rascist and stupidest thing ive ever heard

Answer 8

No, that's not a good approach. She might get offended. Just go up to her, introduce yourself and talk to her like you would any other girl, with respect. Also, don't expect her to be like a girl in a video. Video girls are normally actresses, dancers or models paid to act a certain way.

Answer 9

Sounds as good a chat-up line as you are going to be able to plan. Once she answers you have to make the rest up as you go along; having a script for yourself will come across as too insincere. Smiles are a good first move before you get talking.

Answer 10

Please go to the relationship forum and announce that you are a white man who likes black women. There are several people there who think your kind are non-existant.


And that approach is a really bad idea.

Answer 11

I don't think it would be it might sound kind of racist or something to her. Just ask her if she wants to hang out some time or see a movie or something. Good Luck