With all the advice out there concerning marriage & relationshi how do one decern though it all and separtate?

Question

the good and the bad.

Answer 1

Who do you know that has a great relationship that you respect? If you look for those kinds of people (more than one) you can ask them what they like to read, and what authors they respect, and they will always give you what they think is the very best. Maybe it'd be a good idea to wait till you heard the same thing or same kind of thing from several different people... sounds like you want the good stuff, right?