I really wanna go out with this guy and he like talks to me everynight and he is my friends friend and and now my gooood friend thats how I met him and I really like him and he is awesome and he is commiting time to take care of me and help me cuz I have some issues like about abandonment and stuff and he is so sweet he is always trying to help me... but he ALSO likes to make me happy by making me horny and teasing me and making me happy and he is always there for me and I tell him alot of stuff and he knos me pretty well... I dont kno if he is just being a nice guy or he really likes me cuz like ill say something about my looks and he never says o your pretty and u kno it but he loves my *** and he always tells me I have cute little ways of signs that I do or dont want to do something and stuff is he just being nice cuz he feels bad for me or do u like he actually likes me? I really wanna go out with him but im to afraid... that he is just being nice. Im so confused. Hes perfect.
2006-10-28 10:47:35 · 11 answers · asked by Artificially Sweet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds as if he is only playing on your weaknesses to get what he wants. Please be careful, you don't want to end up getting used. Remember that you don't need a man at your side to take care of you and get what you want out of life.
2006-10-28 11:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Zodiac_Child 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with this guy. He is being nice to you because he likes you. You have to stop worrying about what if. Life is full of what ifs. You say he is perfect than go for it. If your meant to be than he will always be there for you. Sometimes friends make better mates than meeting someone and developing a new relationship. Your relationship has already been started. Now take it to the next level and don't complicate it by having sex. Let that be the icing at a later time. Much later time.
2006-10-28 10:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by steve s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, remember that sometimes guys can make better friends than boyfriends, but this seems like you don't think that's the case. If that is so, then ask him if you can meet somewhere, like the beach or a restaurant or the park. Tell him that you really like him, and would like to see how dating works out, if that's ok with him, and reassure him that you will still be friends even if it doesn't work out. Good luck! and don't get too stressed if he doesn't want to date. You'll still have a good friend!
2006-10-28 10:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Becca M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does, but remember, don't do anything you're not ready for, you know how guys can be....all sex-a-holics deep down, especially teens LOL. I think those sex noises and stuff are his ways of flirting with you. Try to joke around with him, but if it gets too uncomfortable change the subject. If he's sincere, too, then he definitely likes you. If all he does is imitate phone sex, he could like you, but probably is a pervert, haha.
2016-05-22 03:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not perfect. All he loves about you is your a**. You said that yourself.
One more thing, you need to read what you wrote. That whole paragraph is 4 sentences. You need to stop using "and" so much. Go back to your English books you must not've understood those rules the first time around.
2006-10-28 10:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by KC 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you he should be man enough to just come out and say it. Seems like you're doing all the work and he's just enjoying the ride with little input. If I like someone I'm big enough to come out and say so and not beat around the bush.
2006-10-28 10:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by WheelchairBA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no guy wants to be with an emotionally challenged girl. its good that you have been able to share your feelings and your past with this guy, but i wouldn't want to date someone that has abandonment issues, esp if they were starting to show signs of that with me too.... which you are, by posting this question.
i think you need to grow and learn from your past and not rely on someone else to make you happy.
you need to work on your issues so that you can give to a relationship and not just take.
2006-10-28 10:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I hate guessing what people tink I'd ask him if he would want to be more then friend if he is as great as you say he is he'll be honest and still be a great friend no mater how he feels Good luck and God Bless
2006-10-28 10:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by Young and Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love to play games. They are all about the chase. And right now you are the prey. I would play back. Fight fire with fire. I cant say for sure if he really likes you. but he definatly wants to do something with you. if you know what i mean.
2006-10-28 10:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by lisaloulou6969 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it. just give him a shot. what can it hurt?
2006-10-28 10:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by matt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋