I am in love with a band and I obsess over them all the time. It gets on eveyones nerves. I still want to love them, but I want to shut up about them.
2006-10-28 10:24:18 · 8 answers · asked by ray m 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you still have clay aiken
2006-10-28 10:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by rectal itch 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, your on a good start. Realize that they are just as "imperfect people" as you or your parents or your brothers and sisters. They just seem "way better or special" because they have talent or are famous. So what? Lots of famous people we wouldn't like if we met them, so whats special about these guys? Realize that its okay to like them (allot) and that there are "other" groups out there just as good in different ways. Become a fan of them, also. Split up your interest, its your Obsessiveness that really irritates people, not the band you like. So, get another hobby or a new band to listen to, your family and friends will thank you for it!
2006-10-28 10:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i still want to love them" ?
You can enjoy the band, you can even think they are cute or something, but you don't love them. You need to think about them as they actually are - people. People you might not even like much. You just love their music. Obsess over their music, not the band members.
2006-10-28 10:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by developing other interests, like improving your grades in school, and go out of your way to get some exercise, develop some interest in sports. All this will help you not to spend too much time on the band you are so fond of.
2006-10-28 10:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by pooterilgatto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a adult adult males undertaking. it would additionally merely be a evaluate your existence the place your hormones are working larger then prevalent. merely provide it a while. If it nevertheless occurs, try seeing a shrink and that they are in a position to furnish you something to help decrease your hormone point. wish I helped. :]
2016-12-08 23:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by hannigan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to their music until you get really tired of them n that would work i hope
2006-10-28 11:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by trapped 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
step 1 is admitting that u have a problem. so, you are well on your way.
2006-10-28 11:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by special 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up?
2006-10-28 10:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by John P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋