I'm 13 and way too much has happened to me, I've already made out with almost every guy in my school and my friends hate me now because all there crushes want me, due to UNTRUE rumours people started.
How do I clear my name and get back my friends?
2006-10-28 10:19:27 · 15 answers · asked by xoxsugarrbabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to find out whom started the 'untrue' rumors and clarify with that person whats untrue about them. Then, you need to do something that your peers at school will recognize and let you clear your name of these nasty rumors. I would explane to your friends somehow, if they are willing to listen that you did not do what the so called rumors are all about and tell them that you want to be friends with them again.
FYI.... it would also help if you did not make out with every guy at the school. At that rate, you will have a social stigma that will follow you through life
2006-10-28 10:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by cyncase007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and convince your parents to move to another city...you've, admittedly, made a name for yourself....whether there are rumors out or not...everything being said is not a lie. You said so yourself that you have been loose with just about every guy you know. You deserve what you are getting because thats the kind of name you have made for yourself....you should have been smarter and had more respect for yourself and you would have cared about your image more. Too late now, you reap what you sow!
Maybe if you start now by not getting into a lust fest with every guy you see things will calm down....maybe you shouldnt come out of the house for a long long time!
2006-10-28 17:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by stephanie_6234 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first you have got to stop making out with everyone. That is a name in itself. If you were really their friend you wouldnt even consider their boyfriends. Two, have you made out with any of their boyfriends if so, come clean, and sincerely appoligize. Three, stop what you are doing right now and consider what you are setting yourself up for. Did you know that if you make a with a person and you just brushed your teeth and your gums bleed you can get the aids virus if the person you are kissing has it??? Well you CAN!! You are NOT invincible so dont think "oh it wont happen to me" it can and WILL. Now to get your friends to stop hating you, sit them all down, tell them that you know your behavior is inexcusable and you are very sorry for the way you have acted. Tell them that you want to be a better friend to them, and to yourself, ask them for their help in accomplishing this goal. Then follow thru with what you say you are going to do. Just make sure that you sincerly appoligize to them and make it clear that you are NOT going to make out with their boyfriends. Ok!! Good luck!! Remember what you do today, reflects on you tomorrow. You do NOT want that reputation following you to your adult life.
2006-10-28 17:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by LAURETTA M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop making out with almost every guy in school. How do you think the rumors got started in the first place. Secondly, don't go out with the guys you know your friends like. It's just not a nice thing to do. It will take time, but if you clean up your act, your reputation will take care of itself.
2006-10-28 17:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about the untrue rumors, they will eventually die out and they will find someone else to talk about. And at 13 you should not be making out with anyone. You are far to young. You need to talk with a trusted adult. You may even need some counseling. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-28 17:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the fact that you have made out with alot of guys are what sparked the rumors, so ask yourself how far off base are they. Get some self respect, stop making out with every other guy at your school and maybe the rumors will stop.
2006-10-28 17:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by goaliegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on school for a while. Then when people see that you have changed they will hopefully want to be friends with you again.
Good luck
~Katie~
2006-10-28 17:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you doing that? get some help to see why you're making out with every guy. there is some self esteem issues there that need to be examined.
2006-10-28 17:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find who your true friends are and stick with them, and see if you can back off on the guys a little bit.
2006-10-28 17:22:13 · answer #9 · answered by nameisie90 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find new friends, real friends shouldnt be thinking that you are lying, they should believe you.
2006-10-28 17:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋