Alright, well I'm 13 and my bestfriend finally got a boyfriend and I'm totally excited for her.. But .... last night was our Halloween Dance and my friend was across the gym have to the time leaving me and her boyfriend alone, after hours of dancing my friend came back to us making out. I feel terrible, but I adore this guy but shes my best friend... What do I do?
[[note, that I am a 13 year old, with decent grammar :) ]]
2006-10-28 10:11:39 · 11 answers · asked by xoxsugarrbabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Congrats on your grammar, Dear. :-)
Ok, you should not feel quilty for making out with her bf. She left you alone with him for hours while she was having a good time. Who was she dancing with all that time? If he's her bf she should have been spending time with him.
2006-10-28 10:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. First let me say that you should be very careful. Although 13 isn't a baby, you are still a child. Don't let your child hood get lost in things you shouldn't have to be dealing with sweety.
I would suggest you talk to both your friend and the boy. Please be smart and don't let your reputation get ruined. Don't have sex! I know that may sound a bit goofy but the bottom line is, boys your age are gonna go for the easiest. Sorry but I am being blunt.
be better than that. Focus on the rest of your life. Not moments. Trust me, most moments like these will just be something you will regret down the road.
Best of luck to you.
~T~
2006-10-28 17:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by ~*bUtteRFy~*~kISSeS*~ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
your 13, You will get more B-friends You should do your best to keep your friends though. But if this chick left her man to go dance for a few hours, she must not like him enough anyway. I would appologize to the friend, And see if she is going to be with him or what/ and if not, ask her if she's ok with you getting with him. If not then don't waist the friendship(if shes a good friend) on some boy. PS 13? making out? jeez..
2006-10-28 17:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by morfusaf 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Making out with your best friend's date is just not right. Apologize to her and admit that you were wrong. Even if she did spend have the time across the gym, he was still her date. She may not have been right, but what you did was worse. If you want to keep her friendship, do not go out with him.
2006-10-28 17:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by A 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should appologise to her and make sure it doesn't heppen agian. Even though you like him too, that still doesn't give you the right to do that because he already has a girlfriend. Wait until he breaks up with her. (since he was making out with you, it probably wont take him long to break up with her and ask you out.) But uintil then, you need to appologise to her and dont let it happen agian.
2006-10-28 17:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn early ......keep your lip off your friends boyfriends, your going to gain a reputation that you cant shake off.
With the boy and girls.
2006-10-28 17:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by Diamond in the Rough 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey i am 13 too. well i would just like tell my friend how i feel and try to set her up with someone i know who i thought would like her too. That would make her feel better and maybe get more distracted with her new boyfriend and not be so mad at you.
signed,
Ms.boylover
2006-10-28 17:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by Flordia Keyss 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you need to work on your morals though. why would you even think of kissing someone else's boyfriend? would you like it if some girl did that to you -- make out with your boyfriend?
2006-10-28 17:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by LadieVamp 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Iam 11 yers old and I say you should go 4 it.You may hurt your friend but she hurt you first .If you really want him don't hold back, it's called competion !My friend is doing that 2 me also!
2006-10-28 17:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla A.K.A. BABY GIRL 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's tough! I apologise to your friend and talk to the guy to have him mkae it up to her!
~Froggie
2006-10-28 17:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by Froggie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋