All week my friend was talking about going out to a bar w/our group of friends after a movie thing she's going to, & she invited me to go. Now she just told me that they're not sure what's going on after the movie and that she'd call me at 11. I said ok...then right after i said ok she said, "well i don't want you to sit around all night waiting for me to call so if someone you know is making plans, go ahead bc i think the group is going to a halloween stag & doe instead of the bar" ...how am i supposed to make plans at 5pm on a saturday and why is it that the whole group can go but I'm being excluded. I'm furious but I just kept it in. She's done stuff like this before...like making plans and then not answering her phone when I call. (I let that go bc she was in a new relationship...but i've had enough..what's her excuse now?)
Am I being petty? How would you guys feel? and any advice on what to do? I really don't want to be friends anymore if she keeps treating me like this...
2006-10-28 10:01:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Should I call her on it and tell her off?
2006-10-28 10:04:01 · update #1
sorry about the rambling guys...I was pretty mad when I was typing. If you can sort through the info, I would really appreaciate answers.
2006-10-28 10:08:48 · update #2
maybe the only thing that validates her existence is excluding someone, or maybe she thinks you are way more popular than you really are.
in any case, there's something unreliable and straight out uninteresting about that woman so if I was you I'd think about expanding my social contacts.
2006-10-28 15:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would find new friends and next time she acts that way say no...i have other plans but thanks>>>that will make her wonder>>...you dont need friends like that...she is selfish and is just rude and a liar!why even invite you> or talk about it in front of you? i think she is trying to make you jealous!
2006-10-28 17:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by mary c 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I THINK SHE IS LIVING YOU BEHIND FOR JUST CERTAIN PEOPLE. FRIENDS DON'T DO THAT!!!!!!!!! DO NOT WAISTE YOUR TIME WITH IT.....YOU DO NOT HAVE TO CUT OFF ALL RELATION WITH HER...JUST BE AWARE OF WHAT IS GOING ON AND TAKE IT SLOW ON THAT RELATIONSHIP..........you deserve that people give the value you really have.
2006-10-28 17:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by scorpionbeat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's lying to you, move on and find new friends. You don't need those kinds of friends in your life.
2006-10-28 17:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes!!!!!!!!!if u feel strong about!!!!!!!
2006-10-28 17:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋