After having a baby for a year, you find out that it was switched at birth and you now know who has your baby, and you have hers. Would you switch the babies or would you keep the one you have?
What about after three years...would you switch?
2006-10-28 09:48:26 · 11 answers · asked by ξℓ Çђαηφσ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That is a tough one. I think that you need to keep the child's needs in mind when trying to figure out what is best. The child has already bonded with you and your 'mis placed' child has already bonded with the other person. Of course, I would want to see my child, but I am not sure about what it would do to either child psychologically and what the long term effects from a switch would be.
2006-10-28 09:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by cyncase007 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would switch after a year
but maybe not after 3 years....
2006-10-28 16:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by Becca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've already bonded with this baby as your own, it's just as if it were your biological baby. You love it. A child is not an object to be passed around, it's a person. You love the person, not the ownership of a certain set of genes.
Love people, use things--not the other way around.
2006-10-28 16:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by anna 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
switch babies
2006-10-28 17:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by NATALIA. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont have kids but yes absolutely id switch!
2006-10-28 16:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id switch......and try to keep contact with the last one and its family like my own family!! :)
2006-10-28 16:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, the child has already bonded to the mother it went home with. Changing mother's and any age would be tramatic
2006-10-28 16:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!!!! you must be in a hard spot rite now. well to tell you the truth i wouldnt. it wont be easty to let of him/her and i wont be easy for the child either. and after three years...... i would say HELL no. there's no way. if you do that it would end up haunting you FOREVER!
2006-10-28 16:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know, u love the baby u both thought was yours. God Bless u all.
2006-10-28 16:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wanna keep them both.
2006-10-28 16:51:47 · answer #10 · answered by Priscilla I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋