How does a man show love to his woman?

Question

Ok, not the exact same question as before, but still struggleing to please my wife!! She says I do not show her love as a man should love a woman. She says she knows that I "care" about her, and I "take good care" of her. I try to get her to tell me exactly what is it that she wants that I don't do, but she says that I have to figure that out myself and that "if I really love her" I will find a way to figure out what is it that I "don't do or say" to make her feel that I love her.
MEN: what do you do that makes your wife "feel" that you love her?
WOMEN: What does your husband/boyfriend do that makes you
"feel" that he loves you?

Answer 1

It sounds like this is an issue with herself, and there is nothing you can do... due to her own insecurities.
That's the verdict based on your side of the story... if she told you, then it would be a lot easier, but I'm not sure if she even knows.

Answer 2

It sure is tough to show her if you don't have a clue and she doesn't even offer you any ideas
It all boils down to what kind of attention or affections she is seeking. Is she the type that requires a daily gesture like a kiss or hug or both, would she like an occasional flower arrangement, would she like to go out to supper or how about going somewhere for the weekend? Does she need help around the house? Would making supper, cleaning the house or doing the laundry work. Would compliments go a long way?
Unfortunately there is no clear answer unless your in tune with your wife. Try doing one thing that you wouldn't normally do like give her a kiss and a hug and say I love u, if this works try doing it often. However it probably shouldn't stop there, variety is what matters and doing only one thing all the time will soon be not enough.
After at least trying a few things and it still doesn't work ask her for her help (hey you tried). Remind her that you are not a mind reader and most men are really dumb in this area. Good luck

Answer 3

I've been with my wife for 15 years and I always told her I don't read minds so if she wants something from me she'll have to tell me.

But on the other hand I tell her everyday how pretty and sexy she is and that i love her very very much. I help with house work. I cook once in a while and our 7 year old son pitches in too. I'm there for her when she needs me. I listen to ideas on how we should raise our son and how the houe should be run, most of the time she's right because she's a smart cookie. I will take my son out on evening a wekk so she can have sometime alone to take a bath and relax. I got her to go for massages on a regular basis. Go shopping for clothes with her. she really likes that because she likes my taste in clothes for her.

There are many more things but it's really little gestures with my wife. She doesn't ever expect to get big gifts because we can't really afford them but when i buy her flowers for no reason just because, That makes her very happy. But I knew to do all this because we talk about our likes and dislikes.

Best of luck to you.

Answer 4

I know what your talking about. I don't know if your doing this or not, but if your expecting her to do things for you, that could have something to do with it, show her unconditional love. Meaning that you love her no matter what. Don't expect her to give you sex, especially when she's not in the mood. Be more attentive to her feelings, and support her. It will make a big differeence.

Answer 5

by showing her kindness, understanding, and respect. most of all listening to her.asking her if he can do anything to make her day better, a back rub, foot message, or just by putting little notes in her coat pocket, saying, l love you, miss you.

Answer 6

My man will talk to me, listen to me, put notes in my purse or coat pocket, make tea for me, rub my back or feet. He always tells me as well as shows me how important I am in his life.