Keep a tattoo of his ex wifes name on his chest after 10 years? I've offered to pay to get it removed. I'm the ex wife & hes been with someone else for 9 years? What's up with that?
2006-10-28 08:43:26 · 19 answers · asked by gitsliveon24 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
for me, tattoos are a chronicle of my life and my ex wife's name will stay on me forever. It was a time of my life and I want to remember it.
2006-10-28 09:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by dumb guy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would YOU pay for him to have this tat removed? What does it matter to you? What's up with THAT, is the real question. If the woman he's been with for nine years had a problem with it, HE would have paid to have it removed a long time ago. Move on, honey. After 10 years apart, you are way too involved in your ex's personal business.
2006-10-28 16:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by happy heathen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just a wuss, I understand that it is painful to get a tattoo removed or maybe he just doesn't like the ideal of you paying to have it removed. He has been gone 9 years, so the truth is if he wanted to be with you he would probably let you know somehow.
2006-10-28 15:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsmile 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It his tattoo and his life and skin, you - even though you are not his wife anymore- will always be a part of the life he lived until now.... Made him the person he is today. Like it or not.
2006-10-28 15:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by luc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alot of guys wear tattoos and get them is because whatever is being put on them is part of their lifes history. Maybe he isn't still in love with you but you are a part of his lifes history.
2006-10-28 15:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by flutterby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you still mean alot to him. The memory of the time you spent together must be presious.
Maybe he wants to keep other woman from getting close. I wouldn't go near him
2006-10-28 15:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by somethingelse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the relationship you have had with him during those 9 years. Was ti friends, lovers, or just plain mates?
2006-10-28 15:51:14 · answer #7 · answered by brina489 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is he scared of getting it removed? I'd be a little upset after all that time.
2006-10-28 15:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by IMHO 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Duh! He is still not ready to completely let you go. Let him keep it if he wants when he is ready he will remove it. Men have a hard time letting go of their true loves. Consider yourself a brilliant and wonderful woman to have the ability to make a man remember you after all that time.
2006-10-28 15:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You ment something to him, and he doesnt want to do it... My husband has an eagle on his back, of my name, and my daughters, he said even if we split up he wouldnt remove it. He says that, were his life.
2006-10-28 15:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋