i promised my bf that i was to get a cell phone for my b-day but my family doesnt love me so they wont give me anythng....i dont know what to tell my bf......i also feel depressed that my family cant give me anything they wont even try.... i need to know what to do.....:('''''''''''(((((((((((((((((((((
2006-10-28 08:41:06 · 15 answers · asked by Insignificant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my granfather died on my 13 birthday
2006-10-28 08:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron A 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Cell phones are expensive and a waste of money, do you have a roof over your head ??? Do you get fed meals ?? Do you have clothes ?? Quit feeling sorry for yourself and using the excuse that nobody loves you to be miserable. Get off your butt and do something to improve your life , like maybe a job ???? Earn it yourself and show everyone what you can accomplish. The new you will also attract a new boyfriend who is better for you than some jerk who makes you worry about a cell phone. OMG
2006-10-28 15:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by DEADGONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 15. If you really want the phone, get a job and buy one for yourself.
As far as your family and your birthday, you didn't say whether your family could afford presents for you or not. There is a lot to be taken into consideration. There are no excuses in life though, you are almost an adult and are able to take matters into your own hands at this point in your life. Grab it by the 'balls' and start moving.
2006-10-28 15:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't get how can you promise your bf that will get a cell phone unless you buy it yourself? If your boyfriend will be upset if you don't get one, I recommend that you dump him.
Your family is there for your support, but it doesn't mean that they have to buy you all kinds of stuff. Get a job and earn money to buy your own cell phone.
Almost all people in your age go through the mood swings that you are describing. All part of growing up, it will get better.
2006-10-28 15:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Ivan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have clothes on your back? food on the table? a roof over your head? are you paying for all this for yourself? or is YOUR FAMILY providing this for you?! stop crying because you don't have a stupid cell phone to call your stupid boyfriend!
if your family didn't love you, your a** would be out in the street!
stop being an ungrateful, self-absorbed brat! sounds like you don't deserve anything.
ps. have a happy birthday!
2006-10-28 16:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 15 you shouldnt get everything you want. Babysit or mow yards find something to get money and get your own phone. Tell your bf the truth your family wants you to grow up.
2006-10-28 15:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by blwatson41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your family can't afford it then you need to just accept it move on. Not getting a cellphone or party doesn't mean your parents don't love you. My daughter pulls this on me and ends up grounded.
2006-10-28 15:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by redwidow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, there is no law that says your family has to give you anything. they gave you life, i think that should be enough. i'm not getting my kids any of that crap because they don't need it. my children should never be anywhere that i don't know of. and everywhere they should be has a phone. stop being so selfish and look at the things that they already give you. a home, food, clothes, books, and education. maybe you should get a job and buy it for yourself.
2006-10-28 15:44:17 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
first thing you need to learn is never promise anything, and why do your parents have to get you a cell phone, get one yourself, second lesson is never depend on anyone.
2006-10-28 15:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by clueless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get off this site and play with your friends!! Sounds to me like you are a spoiled brat!!! Maybe you don't deserve a phone or maybe they can't afford one. It doesn't mean they don't love you--it probably means they want you to EARN it??!!
2006-10-28 15:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by bunya00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a spoiled brat and maybe you will realize the world does not revolve around you!
2006-10-28 15:44:09 · answer #11 · answered by He_Knows_Me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋