My mom or dad have not given me the talk yet but I pretty much know what it is. My friends tell me advice at shcool and basically they are like my mom. My moom didn't really even talk to me when I got my period. I have 2 older sisters that my mom gave them the talk to. WHy not me? My sister that actually lives in the states tells me some stuff. But not alot. How do I approach my mother or should I just keep asking my friends.?
2006-10-28 08:24:52 · 14 answers · asked by candyr1015 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well, i got a lit sis. My mom favor my sis then me. Well, when i got my period she doesnt care and when i was in a big pain, she didnt care as well. She forced me to go to skool as usual.
But when my sis, she hasnt got her period yet, mom tells her hhow it is and all that stuff.
I know how you feel, like unloved or whatever, cause i have been that too. Well, you can ask me if you want to know more. Just email me at tamchuiyee@gmail.com and oh, well, i am 15
2006-10-28 12:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by v_o_v_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really should come from your parents. Sit your mom down and talk to her. If you have questions, by all means start off by asking then. Maybe it will help her open up some more. You may not have gotten the big talk yet because you may not be as old as your 2 older sisters were when they got the talk.
Unfortunately, the stuff that you're going to learn from your friends and from the media might not always be accurate.
2006-10-28 15:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mom of 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you and your Mom are alone, sit down and tell her you would like to talk. I'm sure she has wanted to discuss this with you too. But sometimes we all get so involved in our day to day lives, with work and all, there never seems to be the right moment. Why not make a date with her. Tell her you want to set a date for a Mom and Daughter afternoon. And don't be shy. That's what Moms are for. I know, I'm a Mom. Good Luck and I respect the fact you want to ask your mom instead of hearing these things from outsiders. You obviously have great parents.
2006-10-28 15:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by ASTORROSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, maybe what has been going on is your mom assumes that you will learn from other people. approach her on a day when she's in a good mood and let her know that you would like to communicate more with her as her daughter. i may be in a bad position to answer this because i'm the eldest child and only daughter, but knowing moms, she probably just doesn't know how you feel about the subject. ask her and see what she says. if she doesn't want to talk, which is unlikely, then you should maybe see if there's something that you've said or done that you need to make wrong. i hope this advice works!
L.K.
2006-10-28 15:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by nameisie90 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The TALK...
I can imagine your mom hasn't had the talk with you because she is guessing your older sisters will give you THE TALK...
I was the oldest in my family & I am very certain all of us (girls & boys) got THE TALK.. straight from our Momma's mouths.. but I suppose there are exceptions
So why not go to your Mom & say "Hey Mom, lots of my freinds at school have been talking about sex. Is it possible that I may be getting wrong information? Would you please give me "THE TALK" from your perspective"
Believe me... as a parent that would nail my attention to the wall & you would get as much of "The Talk" as you wanted/needed from that point!!!
2006-10-28 15:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by Bama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You start the conversation, with your Mom talk to her like she is your best Friend. She she has more life experience she will have better answers for you than your friends since you are all just beginning in life
2006-10-28 16:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to your friends. They don't know anything. Just go up to your mom and say we need to talk! And then talk. It is not that hard. She has go through the same things as you are.
2006-10-28 16:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask ur mom straight out. She knows alot more than ur friends do if she gave birth to ya!
2006-10-28 17:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by smile.for.meee<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur mom just dont want u to grow up because ur her last little girl, and she just wants u to stay that way. sit her down and tell her that u need to talk bout this stuff someday and that day might as well be today. trust me. it always works. good luck
2006-10-28 20:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by babydoll10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mom and your friends some times other childrens mom tell them more and you can info from them but you can also some from your mom and she doesn't tell you your friends might know
2006-10-28 16:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by death the only way out of life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋