there is this other guy I am very interested in, I have went on one date with him and that was great, since I have talked to him on the phone about 4 times, I emailed him about 6 times, he is a fire man so hes really busy, he responed to 2 of my emails, both times he said we should get to gether again, but when I seen him at a bar he didnt wave or say hi or any thing, is he playing me? I really really like him, what should I do?
2006-10-28 08:15:11 · 8 answers · asked by just me 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
"Never make someone a priority when you are only an option for them.
Has it occurred to you ,that you may be one of 5 or 6 people hes behaving the same way with,at the same time.
just a thought!
2006-10-28 09:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Bearable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but it appears he's just not interested. Why don't you move on and try your luck with another guy. Next time, don't appear to be so desperate (all those calls and emails). Guys will be more interested in you if you play hard to get. Some times it takes a while to get back in the swing of things after a breakup, be patient and be strong. Good luck to you!
2006-10-28 16:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings for him are stronger than his feelings for you. He may not be ready to settle down. He responded to your emails because he likes you as a friend. He may have tried to distance himself from you a bit in the bar because he possibly felt you were smothering him. Maybe he didn't recognize you. Or maybe he thought you would come up to him and be the first to say hi. I don't think he's playing you. Next time you see him at the bar, approach him and say hello. This is probably not your next boyfriend. But it never hurts to just be friends. Good Luck.
2006-10-28 15:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by gc27858 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, he doesn't seem to interested, but I think hes probably trying to let you down gently. Don't sweat it! You'll find somebody better, who is willing to put in the effort to build a relationship.
2006-10-28 15:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by BoardingJD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he not out of the closet yet? Maybe someone he was with doesnt know of his being gay yet?
2006-10-28 15:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by Help Me Help You 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seem to me he is not interested in you. So move on.
2006-10-28 15:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on, sorry.
2006-10-28 15:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else he isn't worth your time darlin
2006-10-29 14:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋