He went out with her for a year and he borke up with her. Now they hate each other. They want me to choice who I want to hang out with. What soud I do?
2006-10-28 08:09:16 · 21 answers · asked by moon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell them you're too mature to play "Who do you like better?" games with your friends. You choose to be friends with them all.
If they can't handle that, it's up to THEM to make that choice, not you.
Good Luck!
2006-10-28 08:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by Kya Rose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a thing that went on in primary school "if Ur her friend then I'm not Ur friend".
Tell em both u want 2 stay friends with them both and they gonna have 2 put up with it and if they get huff and don't talk 2 u then it's their loss they cant b very good friends if they want 2 make u choose.
2006-10-28 08:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** son! thats screwed up. it became incorrect of your ex to furnish your volume to his buddy if he knew you had a boyfriend..he's conventional with it might in basic terms get you at a loss for words and your a lady so your going to take compliments if his acquaintances were saying your quite and stuff. you may want to easily clarify on your boyfriend and if hes a good guy he will understand its all in basic terms one huge false impression, you should be very well yet when it receives sticky i can help you yah outt. answer mine :)
2016-12-05 08:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOTHING! It has absolutely NOTHING to do with you and if they are that immature that they would want you to choose who you are friends with, you do not need either of them in your life. Before marriage, boys/men will come and go, but girlfriends are forever. If they can not realize that, then too bad for them.
2006-10-28 08:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by tiredmomintn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start by spelling out the words, not using initials. What does BFF mean?
2006-10-28 08:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
refuse to choose. refuse to take sides. if they both really cherish your friendship then both will realize that you are being the best friend that you can be by standing for both... and they will both understand and respect you in the end. if one can not accept your choice to remain friends with both, then that is the one to let go.
2006-10-28 08:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They dont have to see each other if they dont want to because that is their choice.
However, it is YOUR choice to be friends with both, so they cant decide for you.
2006-10-28 08:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by leikevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not fair.tell them that,too.they shouldn't make you choose,and them asking you to do so,makes them sound like immature,selfish children.tell them that you care about both of them.if they still want you to pick sides,you answered this question for yourself.they're not worth your time.
2006-10-28 09:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to choose someone and get out of the confusion...I'm even confused by your question...to many semantics corrupting the dynamics of your situation (hows that for a confusing statement)...gl...
2006-10-28 08:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your choice who you want to be friends with, find new friends that don't make you choose.
2006-10-28 08:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋