the problem is the meet outside work and I don't go because of the age gap
2006-10-28 07:59:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thanks everyone
2006-10-28 08:06:55 · update #1
well, I'm not in that situation, but i can see that as i get older that will have to be an adjustment i have to live with. you didn't clearly indicate what your problem is though. are you mad that you are older and are succumbing to the backwards notion that only young people matter? Do you feel socially ostracized? Do you really think you have anything in common with them that you would want to go? If so, then go and stop crying about it.
2006-10-28 08:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why what age gap? NO details here. I don't work, in school I was the oldest. Lucky me or I would have been the youngest by a mile.
2006-10-28 15:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand because I'm a much older student at university. You could join them with the understanding that you are not at that stage of life, so you couldn't expect to be close friends. Carve out a role for yourself as a mentor to their problems and insecurities. People need older friends in life for role modeling.
2006-10-28 15:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and your experience could teach them a lot, don't make a gap integrate age is only a state of mind, youl be as young as you think (act youngly)
2006-10-28 15:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Marta
I can relate I just stay to myself no offense where I used to work at they were all freaks anyways LOL
2006-10-28 15:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that used to happen to me. when i was in youth group. They would all go out together but i wouldn't coz i was the youngest. But now a few teens my age came to youth group & i hang out with them :)
xxx RuThiE xxx
2006-10-28 15:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by Nirvana FREAK! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I am always the oldest one where I work.
2006-10-28 15:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk with your head held high. if they aren't nice then bring a friend !
2006-10-28 15:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by ☼Sunshine☼ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it! Have some fun!
2006-10-28 15:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol! the old lady.....how old are ya, 29?
2006-10-28 15:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋