This also goes for a female experimenting with another female as an adult. Does this mean she is a lesbian?
2006-10-28 07:53:00 · 13 answers · asked by santo 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Not necessarily. The experimentation itself doesn't reveal true sexual identity. Children explore their bodies and the bodies of other children; that doesn't mean they are gay or straight... it just means they're children. Adults, male OR female, who experiment are doing just that.... experimenting. Testing. Pushing their preconceived notions of what is "right" for them. If it reveals a capacity to be intimately and emotionally attracted to members of the same sex then THAT is when they know who they are. But the experimentation itself is... just a test.
2006-10-28 07:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily. In theory we are all potentially "bisexual", not that i believe that "bisexuality" really exists. Let's put it this way, ppl naturally tend to TRY different experiences, sometimes by accident, but other times willingly.
Being gay really depends on you're real sexual preferences, for instance, trying meat by accident doesn't mean a vegeterian is no longer a vegetarian.
If it only happened once, you've never fantasized over it again, and you're not craving for more...
and most importantly you're not attracted to MEN... well
i really don't think you should be "worrying" about it...
(not that it would be an issue really)
2006-10-28 08:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by j_J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not at all even if you experimented with a guy at 18+ you wouldn't be considered gay because its experimenting you re just exploring!
2006-10-28 08:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by unknown_demon2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it makes you gay/lesbian for experimenting ones sexuality.....I think everybody's has been curious about their bodies when they were small and tried on a dare...I did...
2006-10-28 08:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! You just answered your own question. You experimented one time. Put it down as another childhood curiousity.
2006-10-28 07:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by Murphyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's human nature to explore and test out many different thing's.
2006-10-28 07:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by Thankyou4givengmeaheadache 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a natural thing.Now if you were 16 or older,then i'd say yes!
2006-10-28 08:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by Pardon Moi? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exploration is just a natural part of life it does not define us
2006-10-29 06:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. One swallow does not make a summer.
2006-10-28 11:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a question you have to answer in your hear.
2006-10-28 07:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by Kerilyn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋