where can I find a site for gays who don't really want to be??

Question

I'm bisexual and don't really want to be, can you give me some reasons why not to be??

Answer 1

There's no way to not be the way you are, at least when it comes to sexuality. Its like dying your hair... you can make yourself blonde for the rest of your life, but underneath you are ALWAYS going to be red headed.

ANY organization offering reparative / conversion therapy (therapy to "cure" homosexuality / bisexuality) is LYING. There is nothing to cure and they will SCAM you.

The most important fact about 'reparative therapy,' also sometimes known as 'conversion' therapy, is that it is based on an understanding of homosexuality that has been rejected by all the major health and mental health professions. The American Academy of Pediatrics, the American Counseling Association, the American Psychiatric Association, the American Psychological Association, the National Association of School Psychologists, and the National Association of Social Workers, together representing more than 477,000 health and mental health professionals, have all taken the position that homosexuality is not a mental disorder and thus there is no need for a 'cure.'

Answer 2

Well, to find a site,do a search on a search engine.I'm sure you will find plenty. But if you really are bi, then it won't just go away like the flu. If you don't want to be,just abstain from sex with same-sex members. But asking in the LGBT section is not going to get you answers on why not to be gay, since we're all either gay,lesbian,bi or trans. You should have asked this question in the straight or homophobic section.

Answer 3

I find some guys good looking and have wee thoughts and stuff, however I think if it came to it I would bottle it.

to date Ive done nothing with a guy but I will never rule it out. I know it is wrong but Ive done a lot of wrong things as we all do.

I don't believe you go to hell etc, its your body to do what you want with but I just reckon you should be yourself and not give yourself a tag.

you are an expressive human being that's it. Probably thousands of years ago we behaved like monkeys and shagged everything and anything walking past.

Answer 4

Your church or others in your locale will be able to point you in the direction of "therapeutic" programs that can aid in overcoming sexual urges towards the same sex, at least in theory. But please be careful. There is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU, and you're taking a huge risk when you start messing around in your psyche looking to change something you were born with. I think the better idea is to seek out some gay organizations and make some friends. You'll see soon enough that being gay is hardly torture.

Answer 5

Love is love, be yourself, no offense, but you have to love who you are before others can love you. There is nothing wrong with who you are, I know that is not really answering your initial question, but be proud of who you are. I cannot give you reasons not to be who you are. Sorry. :)

Answer 6

Bradder. you don need a site to do that. Ask your conscience. Are you happy whit what you have now. Love women and respect them. They will love and respect you as a man. Your soul hurts so bad now. Hold your ground and think what is right. Keep your sins to yourself and only you and GOD knows. come back to him and HE will show you the way. Whichever path you choose is the road you will be walking.

Answer 7

It's not a choice...sorry you have to play the cards you're dealt...everyone has things about themselves that they'd like to have changed...life doesn't work that way.

Answer 8

Ask yourself, who are you? Why do I feel this way? What I don't feel like other people? , there's no site for this (go to church and pray)

Answer 9

I have a reason, All *******, dykes, bis, and trans are freeks.

Answer 10

be who you are. you only don't wanna be who you are cuz ppl make fun of you or look down upon you. you can't change your sexual orientation. -i'm 11