2006-10-28 06:25:41 · 39 answers · asked by jaga j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be a man and decide for yourself.
2006-10-28 06:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has clearly made her choice. Her loyalty isn't to you. That should be apparent in her behavior. No explaination can justify that behavior.
I would ask these guys who wants to take her in, because you will be dropping off her things that evening. Don't even fight about it. There is nothing to fight about.
FInd out which guy's place you can drop off her stuff at, then do it. Change the locks and only discuss over the phone, the arrangements for getting the rest of her things.
Then file for divorce. You can do better than her.
2006-10-28 06:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this something that titillated you? Some guys get into that..the whole cuckold thing...
If it disturbs you too much then you would have known what to do from the get go and kicked her to the curb...
The only other thing that I would advise you to do because you do not state if children are involved is go to marriage counseling if you feel you can get past this. I would be very hard but possible if you feel that the relationship can be salvaged
There are too many variables to say something in black and white...do what you think is the right thing in the end...
2006-10-28 06:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok I am just wondering if this was simultaneous or has she cheated on you 3 times? Because if it was all of them at once she is either living out a sexual fantasy or horny as hell and you need to give her more sex. Either way you ended up being hurt and if you don't think that you two can get past this or forgive her then you need to move forward without her.
2006-10-28 06:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do what you feel you have to....mine went to bed with at least 5 men, and I found out...it broke my heart, and I thought I was going to die..couldnt eat, sleep, cried. I understand now why she did it, and I have forgiven her, cause we been together since 1957 and married for 45 yrs, but I dont think I can ever forget it...she has been my life for so long, against the advice of friends and relatives, I chose to stay with her...I can only wish you luck in finding your own peace of mind with this...
2006-10-28 06:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First doing what? and if I am thinking that she is actually "doing" three other guy's then you, then she doesn't care about you and she might have caught something, you never know now and days. I would leave her and find someone who is actually going to respect you and not cheat or decieve you in such a way... Cheaters never change..!!!!
2006-10-28 06:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A divorce lawyer would be a good start. Then leave her or throw her out.
Then a fast trip to the doctor for an STD test. This many sex partners means a very good opportunity to get one.
2006-10-28 06:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by my_iq_135 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-28 06:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang man! She must be HOT!!!! If I caught my wife doing 3 other men, I would jump in a join the party. LUCKY Dude. Call me next time.
2006-10-28 06:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
aIf this is an actual situation then I say Dump that ho!
This tramp defiantly has issues, goin thru men 3 at a time shes gonna collect diseases faster than my son collects baseball cards.
2006-10-28 10:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by rugabekim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you really serious in your question or is this a joke?
Since it was with 3 other men it probably was rape and you should empathize with her and report those men so they never do it again. If she herself chose to do that, encouraged it, says she encouraged it, first ask her reason, get her to counseling, then go to marriage counseling, then probably to a quick divorce court.
2006-10-28 06:29:03 · answer #11 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋