I know my mother does not believe me that I am leaving (also because she treats my fiancee like crap and shes a stalker), but I need a constructive way to just LEAVE. To Move out without her totally disowning me since she knows part of the reason I am leaving is because she wants to kill my fiancee...I would just LEAVE one day, but what about my things at her house?
2006-10-28 06:10:21 · 7 answers · asked by Señorita Lucera 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
SOMEONE is exagerrating!
How about just telling her that you're moving and tell her that she's free to help if she so desires?
You don't have to get so dramatic though. You're what, 18? You have a LOT of maturing to do before you're ready to get married.
2006-10-28 06:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My answer would depend on your age and a few other things here, one if you are underage and in a good family enviourment then I think you should spend some time and reflect on why your Mother may not like you fiancee...If you are an adult...
First I would sit down and write a letter outlining your reasons to your Mother why you are feeling the need to move out and go to college.
Sometimes our parents see things in our relationships that we are not aware of because we are so far in them. Other times it may just be the personality of a parent to want to hold on to a child that is near and dear to them.
I would not rush things...first I'd write the letter read over it make corrections until you feel comfortable with your wording and then may you will feel comfortable enough to sit with your mother and have a chat about your situation.
2006-10-28 13:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by Coco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you moving to another sate for college, or to get out of your house because of a domineering mother? Please, Explain because the way you wrote this e-mail it sounds like your mother does not want you to have a life of your own. And you say she wants to kill your boyfriend? Hard to believe it. What is more important to you, your sanity,or being worried about your possessions, what is stopping you in calling the authorities, and reporting your mother, a police officer beside you would be safer on your part and do not look back when you are gone. Good luck, and I hope that you made the right decision concerning your boyfriend.
2006-10-28 13:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mother of two, I can say a mother's love never ends. You need to be honest with her about how you feel. She may not agree because she may think your man is not worthy enough for you. I can tell you, no man is good enough for our babies. As long as he treats you with respect and has a job, then maybe she is just scared to loose you when you leave. It is hard for parents to see thier kids grow up and move out. Just don't ask her to understand just ask her to listen to ho you feel. For you are a woman who needs to make it on her own or learn a lesson your mom is trying to teach you now. Either way you have to live you own life with honesty and self respect.
2006-10-28 13:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by SHEILA T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love you mom,i'll be in touch and see you as often as possible,this desiccion i'm making is going to benifit me better for the rest of my life.Done thats all.
2006-10-28 13:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay. dont tell her. just slowy day by day take a lil of ur stuff outta there. it is a slow process, but it works w/ as lil of destuction as possible.
2006-10-28 13:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by Don't Ask 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious?
take all your things & just leave ! ... promise her to visit & keep in touch ... she should know you have your own life
just be polite in talking !
2006-10-28 13:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋