Is it wrong to have a boyfriend and a husband?My husband doesn't mind because he also has a girlfriend on the side.But what about all the kids?Are they to be raised as all brother and sisters,or what?
2006-10-28 06:08:33 · 22 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't live in a trailor,we can't afford one yet.
2006-10-28 06:18:56 · update #1
Um.....Jerry Springer called. He says you're due on stage in 5 minutes.....
2006-10-28 06:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you feel! I personally dont agree, deasies could be spread, and you could fade away from your spouse and or other children but its your choice. If you and your husband both argee, and if your boyfriend and your husbands girlfriend agree than it is NOTT wrong! It is different than cheating, if that how u want to live than so be it. The children sould be raised as sister and brothers. But remember, your children that you had with your boyfirend have NO relation with the children your husband has with his girlfriend!! Make sure that your kids from your boyfriend see you alot, everyone needs an available, loving mother. FOr more info you can see a consular, or talk to a close person, most likley a woman, good luck, Nicole
2006-10-28 13:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even be married, what kind of a message are you sending the children. It is not okay, there are to many STD's out there that could start getting passed around. How messy the holidays could get. When the other woman or other man starts wanting more time than your spouse wants you to give, how do you handle that. Your children are being shown that it is okay to sleep around with others out of wedlock, I hope that is what you want to teach them....for me it is an absolute no no
If you feel as if im attacking you, im sorry that's not my intentions, im just worried about your family structure and don't want your children to hurt or suffer due to your choices...
2006-10-28 13:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is wrong but who am I to judge. A marriage use to be a man and wife only. It's up to you and your husband to determine if what your doing right. Why would you want to share your husband with someone else? And how do you feel about your husband sleeping with another woman? The outcome is that your children will be messed up in all of the confusion. Do you want your children to grow up and imitate your actions.
2006-10-28 13:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get a divorce what is the point in gettin married if you just want to sleep around i understand because of the kids you probilly want tostay together but that will just mess them up more live seperatly and if you still wanna "do it" with your ex do it somewhere the kids won't find out cuz then they would think mommy amd daddy are getting back together and its just easier for he both of you then nothing is wrong for daddy to have a girlfriend if he livess seperate from you it happens everyday so my advice is just get a divorce and live apart
2006-10-28 13:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kadie-bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they wont but that you are going is wrong i think that you and your husband should go out on a special vacation and talk obout how you both first meet.
2006-10-28 13:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by felecia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys would have done great in the '60's.
2006-10-28 13:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with it the more the merrier and keep working hard one day you might get that trailer
2006-10-29 10:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know about this Open Relationship stuff
2006-10-28 13:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by newyork90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your mom and dad have 'extra friends' in their life as well?
Do you have any idea what marriage means???
2006-10-28 13:11:37 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋