i set low goals.. i am worried about my future .. but i just out the best as something never due to me.. and i just ignore it.. i always aim for the border.. and am happy being average.. is it ok to be this way??
2006-10-28 06:01:24 · 13 answers · asked by anamika 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hi VJ
You probably set low goals because:
- you do not understand wat potential you have within you
- you do not know HOW to develop and unleash the potential within you
- you may not want to disappoint yourself
It is definitely ok to be this way if you are willing to accept always having a second best things in life and you are willing to accept NEVER EVER having the life you could be having if only you believed otherwise.
But if you really want a better life and want to break out of this old mould, then you can email me at verityy@yahoo.com and I can suggest some books for you to read and some courses to attend
Good luck!
2006-10-28 18:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not- you will continue to be a low achiever if you think this way- success in life comes from hard work and dedication. Why be a shoe shine person when you can design and build the shoes. Hopefully this is just a phase you are going thru. Do you like to read- immerse yourself at the library read about success people. You will 99% started out aiming for the border but thru dedication and hard work managed to leave a positive mark on history- do you belong to a club i.e. scouts, boys/girls club or play sports- a outlet for your creativity.
"The heights of great men reach and kept were not achieved by sudden flight- they while their companion slept were toiling upwards thru the night"
Henry Wadsworths Longfellow
2006-10-28 13:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by roydono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to pep yourself up with the competitive zeal. Compete, compete, compete, and don't be afraid to lose. If you win 30 percent of the times, you're doing above average. Don't be a wimp, and lack ambition, compete and get what you want. Just pay attention, however, to the competition,
2006-10-28 13:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be who you want to be. Its your life, no one else can make you more happy then being happy with your own life and the way you are. If you want more for yourself, you are the only one who can make it happen. If your happy with your situation then its all good. Its all in the way you think. If your thoughts are negative things, most likely that's what you will start to believe. You'd be surprised at what positive thinking accomplishes.
2006-10-28 13:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by wildcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best motivation is God. To love and serve God is the best way to live our lives. We will be in Heaven with great rewards for everything we do on earth for His sake. Heaven and Hell are real and eternal. Never doubt a single moment. See: WWW. SPIRITLESSONS. COM.
2006-10-28 13:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by Moriahho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world is made up of INDIVIDUALS. We are not all going to be, or feel, the same, in every way. If you are happy and content, I wouldn't give it a second thought.
2006-10-28 13:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur very negative and dont have enough confidence in what ever u do . Try doing something u like and learn to be a bit selfish .
2006-10-28 13:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by candicecocolove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are u afraid of failure?
if u set high goals, u scare unable to achieve it?
step out of your comfort zone, u have to get yourself going and someday u will see you are also able to shine brightly.
2006-10-28 23:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by wise_one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that because you are happy - isn't that what life is all about? Being happy!!!
2006-10-28 13:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's find to have that worry every one does...
i know it may seem typical to just leave a link..
but it should help you if you read over and answer yourself...
coping.org
it helped me and i don;t want a to glamorous lifestyle ...
MAd luv
2006-10-28 13:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋