2006-10-28 05:53:01 · 7 answers · asked by Britt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Keep busy and try not to see that person that much. Time heals, the less time you are around that person the better. Try to stay busy and around people that dont remind u of him.
2006-10-28 05:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by okinaps319 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time is the first element.
Love should hurt when it comes to an end, shouldn't it?
it sure does hurt.
One, remove and box up remembrances of them.
out of sight is out of mind -- well, it helps.
Two, make yourself do other things.
That's getting on with life.
that's also the best medicine to get them back.
Use this tension inside yourself to improve yourself.
Develop a new hobby, or interest,
one which will make you a more interesting person.
Exercise, work on your abs, or something,
for exercise rids the body of those hormones
that make you not want to eat or sleep.
Think of yourself, not them, and work on yourself.
Naturally, you feel something might be lacking in you,
and you can use this pain to motivate yourself to grow.
Look around, listen to music, and you will see
that yoiu are not alone, and like others,
you will make it through this hard time.
it is supposed to hurt when you break up.
Look in the mirror and tell yourself you're great,
and anyone who gets you is lucky.
Say it every day, whether your believe it or not,
and tell it to the people you are interested in, too.
They will NEVER value you, more than you do yourself.
You can do it, in time.
dj of raleigh
dj of raleigh
2006-10-28 13:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by dj_of_raleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal that you want to see him all the time, even though you have broken up- there is this love-hate tug of war within you. however, realise that you need to save yourself from further confusion. when you cannot get over someone, there could be many reasons. for instance, true feelings or... just plain confusion.. you cannot yet adjust to the idea of being single again-having no routine life that you once had with the loved one.
play the ignorance game. rediscover yourself. indulge in hobbies and sports. be the person that you would love. who knows. he may return of his own accord.
cheers
2006-10-28 13:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anna D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never completely get over them but with time that does diminish...and in fact there will come a time when you look back at the whole thing and smile with warm memories so time is the thing that helps the most...and going on with your life cause there are so many more people out there. Good luck!
2006-10-28 12:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isn't any single method or list of things to do in order to get over someone. it just takes time..first of all, don't throw away anything that reminds you of the person you love, instead, leave it in a box call "____(his/her name) BOX" that way whenever you get lonely or sad you'll know that at a point in your life, you loved this person and he loved you. that really helps me.
2006-10-28 13:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicole: well the truth is you never do (if it is really love), it sucks but that person will always be either in the frount of your mind or the back but he will never get out of your mind.
kate: sob 2 your friends,write in your journal cry your eyes out,trust us it will help
2006-10-28 12:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by you should have signed out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time ... you need to focus on the good times you had and put them away for another day ... then have yourself a good pity party and go out and have fun ... find other things to occupy your time, reconnect with friends and just find who you are and what it is you want out of life.
2006-10-28 12:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋