there is this guy who started talking to me last week be fore science class . and we now talk everyday wat does it mean? because im starting to 2nd thoughts about him. i thought he was a bad guy. but now i have a crush on him. should i have a crush on him?
2006-10-28 05:49:25 · 15 answers · asked by Ali b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Daa, he definitely digs you but is he a bad guy? Whatever your definition of bad means- If he's not the kind of guy you want your parents to see you with or your best friends, or he's into things that are below your standards, your second thoughts are justified and you should drop him---everyone is attracted to the opposite at some point in their life- he may be your "bad boy".
2006-10-28 05:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be helpful to know if you are a guy or gal for sure...
I will say this, because someone you thought differently of all of a sudden starts talking to you and befriends you does not mean you have to have a crush on him...be careful and make sure you know his motives before you invest any emotions in the whole thing...being friends is one thing but taking it beyond that is another...just be wary and safe, ok?
2006-10-28 06:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem flattered by the attention.
You don't know him, not yet,
but you are not used to handling these feelings.
I always suggest that you PICK your boyfriends,
not the other way around, but then, someone
has to be picked, don't they!
You seem to be a romantic at heart.
Your feelings of having a crush are true,
for it is the way you feel, but should you?
You must decide if this person is the kind of person you want.
To do that, you must decide on what you value in a person.
To do that, you must decide what you value in yourself.
Enjoy your feelings, but temper them with wise thoughts.
Always ponder and think and seek advice on serious matters.
Pray for guidance, and be strong enough to follow good advice.
dj of raleigh
2006-10-28 05:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by dj_of_raleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a crush on him if you want. And, don't assume that just because a guy talks to you, that it means that they have a crush on you. It just means that the guy likes talking to you, maybe he wants to be your friend.
2006-10-28 06:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you see a person everyday you grow to become comfortable with them. he has probably spent the last couple weeks before he made his move feeling you out. If you aren't sure if you should have a crush on him, your intuition is probably right.
2006-10-28 05:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there's two possibilities.
1) he's using you by gaining your trust (i hope not)
2) 0R... he really does like you and has finally gained some confidence to show you the real him. the two of you might really have something special. should you have a crush on him...if a guy did that to me i would. that's all i can say about it
2006-10-28 05:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all it means is t he trying to get to know u. Hes trying to find out your quality, personality and how you carry yourself. Theres nothing wrong with having a crush on him he probably has one on you to just trying to find more out about you. When hes got all the info he needs he might ask u out. So continue talking to him.
GOOD LUCK
2006-10-28 06:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by sexy_luv_tika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Todd W,Hello,it is normal to have a crush on a guy but do you think it will last.this guy would have seen something in you for him to talk to you.are you quiet or loud?don't jump into conclusions.ask him what he likes about you,then from there you would have a clue.
2006-10-28 06:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by taynisha4real 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if hez talkin 2 u den he's probably interstd in ya..... n u cant decide if u wanna hve a crush or not, it just happens.... so itz up 2 ya if u wanna continue dis or not(dependin on whthr hez a gud guy or not)
all da best!
2006-10-28 05:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by proxsmartest2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your a girl than maybe he likes you. If your a guy than maybe he wants to be your friend. Or if he was making fun of you...he's just being rode.
2006-10-28 05:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by amariyi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋